Nymphetamean
@nympetamean.bsky.social
BDSM educator, writer, YouTuber. Disabled. Queer. Loves dogs, the outdoors, heavy metal &dark humor.
But it's totally accessible except for the three stairs! And the washroom that's in the basement with more stairs...
September 27, 2025 at 9:01 PM
But it's totally accessible except for the three stairs! And the washroom that's in the basement with more stairs...
"it won't happen to me! That bad stuff only happens to other people, who deserve it!!" I'm pretty sure that's the plan. Denial, delusion.
August 10, 2025 at 3:55 PM
"it won't happen to me! That bad stuff only happens to other people, who deserve it!!" I'm pretty sure that's the plan. Denial, delusion.
I remember going to Newfoundland as a kid in July/August. Grandpa always insisted we bring winter coats because "you never know". We always needed them. That was 35 years ago :( I really need to visit again
July 15, 2025 at 4:49 PM
I remember going to Newfoundland as a kid in July/August. Grandpa always insisted we bring winter coats because "you never know". We always needed them. That was 35 years ago :( I really need to visit again
People think that about me as well. I run my own business, they see me out, while I'm working. It never occurs to them, they never see me outside of working- because I don't have the energy after working 2 or 3 days/week to be social, so I made my job social. Sometimes I'm barely holding on
July 13, 2025 at 7:18 PM
People think that about me as well. I run my own business, they see me out, while I'm working. It never occurs to them, they never see me outside of working- because I don't have the energy after working 2 or 3 days/week to be social, so I made my job social. Sometimes I'm barely holding on
The lawyer for the insurance company of the girl who ran me down while texting told me this was the best thing to happen to me. As if the loss of a leg, the ability to walk unaided and constant CRPS pain is just super fun.
July 8, 2025 at 8:59 AM
The lawyer for the insurance company of the girl who ran me down while texting told me this was the best thing to happen to me. As if the loss of a leg, the ability to walk unaided and constant CRPS pain is just super fun.
Charlie, I would love to see something like this but my disabilities probably won't allow me to go underground. Any chance you could do a video? Or give us a Coles notes version? I understand if it's not possible but it looks really interesting!
June 22, 2025 at 10:06 PM
Charlie, I would love to see something like this but my disabilities probably won't allow me to go underground. Any chance you could do a video? Or give us a Coles notes version? I understand if it's not possible but it looks really interesting!
My partner thought about voting for Carney, I warned him against it. Liberals/old school conservatives, not much difference. I wish we had a strong leftist party in Canada 😞
June 18, 2025 at 11:45 PM
My partner thought about voting for Carney, I warned him against it. Liberals/old school conservatives, not much difference. I wish we had a strong leftist party in Canada 😞
Wear an N95 or equivalent respirator, to protect yourself (and others). We are long past the point where we can rely on surgical masks, since so few wear them
June 18, 2025 at 2:13 PM
Wear an N95 or equivalent respirator, to protect yourself (and others). We are long past the point where we can rely on surgical masks, since so few wear them
When I applied for a disability tax credit (so no payment, a credit to pay slightly less tax) my doctor had me fill out most of her portion of the form. She just put in what lab tests/scans found. And she's a good doc that I see every 3 months. She was surprised at how disabling my disability is!
June 17, 2025 at 3:14 PM
When I applied for a disability tax credit (so no payment, a credit to pay slightly less tax) my doctor had me fill out most of her portion of the form. She just put in what lab tests/scans found. And she's a good doc that I see every 3 months. She was surprised at how disabling my disability is!
I always ask them if eating kale would have prevented that car from running me over. Or if the gym will repair the bone and nerve damage that makes my leg unusable. They often turn red and shut up, sometimes they mumble "well no...."
June 17, 2025 at 1:56 PM
I always ask them if eating kale would have prevented that car from running me over. Or if the gym will repair the bone and nerve damage that makes my leg unusable. They often turn red and shut up, sometimes they mumble "well no...."
I have a 200lbs English mastiff, he's a bit grumpy around other dogs. He's always leashed but some folks in our area let their dogs run loose. Their 60 lbs "big dog" wouldn't stand a chance and my dog would pay the price 😞
June 14, 2025 at 11:21 PM
I have a 200lbs English mastiff, he's a bit grumpy around other dogs. He's always leashed but some folks in our area let their dogs run loose. Their 60 lbs "big dog" wouldn't stand a chance and my dog would pay the price 😞
And money for their buddies. Never forget the money
June 14, 2025 at 4:23 PM
And money for their buddies. Never forget the money
My partner and I are the last ones. I thought he would stop for a while but he's managed. It really gets to him though. I'm sorry you're the last one, it's hard.
June 10, 2025 at 12:23 PM
My partner and I are the last ones. I thought he would stop for a while but he's managed. It really gets to him though. I'm sorry you're the last one, it's hard.
This is the case for all chronic illness and we've known this for years. It's why so many of us refuse to go to the ER, even if we really need to. We've spent years being mocked and denigrated by nurses and doctors - we know not to show up.
June 7, 2025 at 12:45 PM
This is the case for all chronic illness and we've known this for years. It's why so many of us refuse to go to the ER, even if we really need to. We've spent years being mocked and denigrated by nurses and doctors - we know not to show up.
I remember gay bashings all too well. Yes, physical beatings. Often severely so. Usually a group of 4 or more guys on one person (of any gender, none of us were safe). A few people were killed this way, no one I knew, but it happened. Cops would kick you a few times too, if they saw it.
June 5, 2025 at 5:03 AM
I remember gay bashings all too well. Yes, physical beatings. Often severely so. Usually a group of 4 or more guys on one person (of any gender, none of us were safe). A few people were killed this way, no one I knew, but it happened. Cops would kick you a few times too, if they saw it.
When I was in highschool, a friend confessing they were queer was the height of trust - so many were getting beaten within an inch of their lives, a few killed. Cops used to beat us, drop us off outside of town, no money, bleeding. No cell phones back then to call a ride. Just a long walk home.
June 5, 2025 at 4:59 AM
When I was in highschool, a friend confessing they were queer was the height of trust - so many were getting beaten within an inch of their lives, a few killed. Cops used to beat us, drop us off outside of town, no money, bleeding. No cell phones back then to call a ride. Just a long walk home.
Also, care homes are dismal. I spent a month in one, recovering from an accident. It took a week before I broke down and begged my partner to find a way that I could come home. After two weeks, he carried me up 4 flights of stairs to our apartment.
May 25, 2025 at 4:11 AM
Also, care homes are dismal. I spent a month in one, recovering from an accident. It took a week before I broke down and begged my partner to find a way that I could come home. After two weeks, he carried me up 4 flights of stairs to our apartment.
The people who want you to push through the pain will never be happy, no matter how hard you push. Save yourself the setback/downtime and ignore their bullshit.
May 22, 2025 at 4:31 AM
The people who want you to push through the pain will never be happy, no matter how hard you push. Save yourself the setback/downtime and ignore their bullshit.
Yes! I never wanted kids, so fertility wasn't an issue for me - my doctors felt differently, always thinking about some unknown future man. I'm also sex adverse (and ace), so sexual function means less than nothing. It's so frustrating.
May 22, 2025 at 1:52 AM
Yes! I never wanted kids, so fertility wasn't an issue for me - my doctors felt differently, always thinking about some unknown future man. I'm also sex adverse (and ace), so sexual function means less than nothing. It's so frustrating.
Very few objected to him not appointing a minister of disability, and look where we are now. No Ministry for disability. Seems like that whole public pressure thing might actually work! But hey, we aren't nearly as important as sports, I get it.
May 14, 2025 at 5:07 AM
Very few objected to him not appointing a minister of disability, and look where we are now. No Ministry for disability. Seems like that whole public pressure thing might actually work! But hey, we aren't nearly as important as sports, I get it.
People didn't object nearly as much to Carney not appointing a minister for disability, and now we...don't have a minister for disability. Maybe if people had made some noise about that, Carney would care about disabled people as much as he cares about sports (who got a minister)
May 14, 2025 at 5:04 AM
People didn't object nearly as much to Carney not appointing a minister for disability, and now we...don't have a minister for disability. Maybe if people had made some noise about that, Carney would care about disabled people as much as he cares about sports (who got a minister)
I'm so sorry to hear that but happy he's in remission. COVID is terrible.
May 9, 2025 at 8:47 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that but happy he's in remission. COVID is terrible.
I got the combo of both things; hit by a car damaged my leg badly, also triggered an underlying condition (CRPS) that has left my in debilitating chronic pain for life. You never know what can happen!
May 9, 2025 at 8:17 PM
I got the combo of both things; hit by a car damaged my leg badly, also triggered an underlying condition (CRPS) that has left my in debilitating chronic pain for life. You never know what can happen!
I would like a revolution as much as the next person (not really), but until then? I would like some pharmacare, dental care, etc. let's work within the system to make things better now. Revolution can always be a plan B.
May 4, 2025 at 5:05 PM
I would like a revolution as much as the next person (not really), but until then? I would like some pharmacare, dental care, etc. let's work within the system to make things better now. Revolution can always be a plan B.