For real. People have different reactions to things day by day and going non-verbal when previously stuck emotions are brought up is so common. I always ask anyone new I’m playing with what it looks like when they have a panic attack or feel too uncomfortable to talk.

Thank you! My birthday actually isn’t until Halloween but I deserve a whole
Month. 😌

You absolute angel! 🖤🖤🥰

Thank you! I do like that name. I’ll keep it in mind.

Text and only having so many characters to co get a thought doesn’t help at all, but I see where it could seem that’s what I was trying to say. I try to only be horrible when being paid to do so. There’s enough ugliness in the world that I’m not trying to contribute to.

My bad. I understand where the misunderstanding comes from. I was using subversion of expectation in my delivery and the nuance wasn’t clear.

No. I’m telling people who have a narrow scope of BDSM practices that it’s weird to project their lack of understanding and assumptions onto consenting adults trying to explore with each other. PS: also an assault survivor and would never shame anyone for that, not sure where you got that.