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@notcharles.bsky.social
gay, problem solver, solver of gay problems (they)
If I had a dollar for every time I had to explain why I can’t bring my family to Disney World in Florida anymore, I’d have enough dollars to bring my kids on a trip to Disney World.
February 16, 2024 at 7:59 PM
The compassion fatigue in me sees the compassion fatigue in you.
February 16, 2024 at 7:40 PM
This actually turned into one of the most traumatic medical experiences of my life, and I had a congenital heart defect misdiagnosed as a toddler.
February 15, 2024 at 12:33 PM
I’m in the hospital and a nurse brought a bunch of bathing stuff in and it was too much for me on the sensory front so I said, “We need to do this more slowly. I’m autistic, I have sensory stuff.” And she said, “You’re autistic? But you’re so calm?”

What does this mean?
February 13, 2024 at 4:44 PM
Pretty wild to read physicians notes from an encounter and see things in there that were never discussed and are incorrect.
February 11, 2024 at 3:35 AM
Setting up a group for #trans bureaucrats. Reach out if you want to talk!
February 6, 2024 at 3:16 PM
I wish they’d redo the William Shatner Unexplained show with, like, Travis Barker as the host and not written by like, Frank Luntz. It’s interesting content but Shatner just called Wernher von Braun a “German-born aerospace engineer” and I can’t.
February 5, 2024 at 1:54 PM
I have such a fondness for boygenius despite never having heard their music as a group or individually. They’re just so precious and charming in a gay younger cousin way. I feel almost protective even though I know they are infinitely cooler than me and do not need my attempt at help.
February 5, 2024 at 10:44 AM
I love when my dogs lay parallel
February 5, 2024 at 8:22 AM
Listening to The Body Keeps the Score and it’s talking about how your body doesn’t know the trauma is over, but does it ever get to the part where the trauma is ongoing and will be lifelong? Fatigue? Is that a different book? Because that’s okay, I just want to know.
February 2, 2024 at 3:52 PM
What do you want to be when you grow up, little buddy?

Remember Erin Brockovich? No no, for the company.
February 2, 2024 at 2:11 AM
ADHD tip: you too can enjoy the free trial - simply cancel it immediately and it won’t charge you when it ends. when you download/sign up, put a calendar reminder in for the day before it’s supposed to expire just to make sure it’s actually canceled. if you like it at the end of the trial, pay.
January 30, 2024 at 1:10 AM
For years I’ve demonized a teacher who made my life hell in HS. I used to get tunnel vision walking into her class; she said some wildly messed up stuff to me. But I just realized she was definitely neurodivergent & it was in large part one big pile of miscommunication. Guess I’m healed on that one.
January 27, 2024 at 3:07 AM
It’s so fun when you reconnect with a random person from a while ago and suddenly you’re bffs just because you’d crossed paths in the past.
January 27, 2024 at 12:01 AM
Having anxiety sucks but you know what doesn’t suck? The feeling you get when you cross something off that has been looming and destroying you for weeks. Now it’s just…over. It’s done and I’m still here.
January 26, 2024 at 11:00 PM
one thing i love about procedurals is when they have regular degular rank & file investigators reporting directly to like, the director of the fbi
January 24, 2024 at 10:47 PM
I’m just trying to play some solitaire
August 13, 2023 at 5:23 PM
they call it this because it’s ridiculously painful and disruptive
August 12, 2023 at 7:08 AM
for me, the biggest blessing of living in the internet age is knowing i’m not alone
August 12, 2023 at 5:42 AM
every day i see a non-zero number of things in my professional life that make me say, out loud, omg grow up don’t you have actual problems.
August 10, 2023 at 2:21 PM
I think my favorite thing on the internet is when my grama fire reacts to photos of my wife on Instagram.
August 8, 2023 at 3:10 PM
✨look at my beautiful wife would you like to compliment her ✨
August 8, 2023 at 3:30 AM
it brings me great joy to see all my fellow doofy transmasc nerdlets pulling absolute smokeshows. we did it [boys]

(smokeshows, inquire within)
August 7, 2023 at 3:03 AM
i am at my most productive and inspired when vibing with my frolleagues (friend-colleagues)
July 29, 2023 at 6:56 AM