Been struggling with that for a long time now, yeah. Though, I've had speech difficulties from the beginning, too.

i stg every kink can be subtextually boiled down to:
-i am powerful/in control
-i am seen as desirable
-i am safe and can now be vulnerable
-i can explore taboo in a safe + controlled environment

once you realize that you realize that no kink can hurt you

CHICKEN (nugget) JOCKEY

"YOU'RE A THIRD RATE DUELIST WITH A FOURTH RATE DECK", Kaiba says to a grade schooler