It's not like stigma has to be attached to it. Again, it's simply a way to express caloric density in a way the majority of furs (ie human-sized) would find applicable, generally, but standardization makes it easy to scale up or down as appropriate (kiloservings, gigaservings, microservings...)

Say, maybe 250ml volume or 250g portions, refer to it as either the "volume serving" or the "mass serving" as appropriate, and list both so people have flexibility whether they'd rather learn to eyeball volumes or carry a scale, assuming they care to measure it at all. they might even list both.

In that setting, a "serving" would be standardized to express caloric density. So probably a standard serving mass or serving volume, & list the amount of calories in that standard portion size.

they can't bury you with the wrong name if there's no body to bury and they can't be sure if you're dead.

So next new years if nothing changes I'm checking out. I'm done with this shit.

I guess what I wanna say is I really don't wanna be alive anymore.

I don't even know if it's my fault, but if it isn't, I still wouldn't even know who to blame for it other than myself.

imagine living your life for YEARS, feeling zero connection to any other adults, and knowing the only connections you did used to have, just wound up causing you pain. That's me.

"don't compare yourself to others"

that's literally all I have anymore, bro. I have no life, and no way to get one.

That one's actually worse because I was hoping not to be an outsider but no, "the trans community is, as usual, primarily a bunch of well connected, gregarious trans women. Which is fine, but it just highlights how well I'm NOT doing and how fast I'm approaching the end of my rope.

yeah last I checked they weren't cool with trans people either.

Damn I just can't stand all this freedom. 😒

moon moon strikes again I see