He thinks everything that isnt made by a racist white boy is "white girl music"

Abusers often abuse to make themselves feel better about themselves and to make them feel stronger, it is a way to put themselves up while putting you down, abusers are weak and will do anything to make sure that you feel like you cant do anything and that you arent important.

Survivors of domestic violence may internalize verbal abuse from their partner. They may blame themselves for their situation or feel anger and resentment toward themselves.