Nikki
@nikkieneff.bsky.social
A little whimsical, a little odd, unapologetically me, a beautiful soul who appreciates what this earth has provided us. I love my cozy life, my spouse, kids, pets, home, and garden. 🌈 ally, 🔵 in Oklahoma.
We need to hold our communities accountable and call out hatred. We need to be the whole problem.
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
February 5, 2025 at 5:23 PM
We need to hold our communities accountable and call out hatred. We need to be the whole problem.
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
AND we need safe spaces of people we can trust and cry with and fight with and celebrate with.
You have space here. I know the cost of standing up. I’ve paid it my whole life. Do it anyway. 🫶🏻
Today was a hard news day. 🍊 & Musk are so triggering when you grew up with middle class versions of them.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.
February 5, 2025 at 4:23 AM
Today was a hard news day. 🍊 & Musk are so triggering when you grew up with middle class versions of them.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.
Seeing people still eat it up is like being that kid who wasn’t believed all over again.
This time, though, I have found my people and that narrative is different. Thank you for that 🫶🏻.
Don’t argue with them. Don’t give space to explain it away. Believe them and thank them for finally owning up to who they are and what they believe. It allows you to set and maintain better boundaries to protect yourself.
January 22, 2025 at 8:39 PM
Don’t argue with them. Don’t give space to explain it away. Believe them and thank them for finally owning up to who they are and what they believe. It allows you to set and maintain better boundaries to protect yourself.
I grew up with narcissistic abuse. Gaslighting was the law of the land. You could have all the evidence that ever existed, and it still didn’t happen.
It happened. Trust yourself. Don’t be gaslit out of the things you saw with your own eyes. Don’t ever forget.
It happened. Trust yourself. Don’t be gaslit out of the things you saw with your own eyes. Don’t ever forget.
January 22, 2025 at 12:33 AM
I grew up with narcissistic abuse. Gaslighting was the law of the land. You could have all the evidence that ever existed, and it still didn’t happen.
It happened. Trust yourself. Don’t be gaslit out of the things you saw with your own eyes. Don’t ever forget.
It happened. Trust yourself. Don’t be gaslit out of the things you saw with your own eyes. Don’t ever forget.