Healthy human relationships are built upon so many skills that men often refuse to practice: From developing a personality and learning your own taste so you can connect through hobbies with others, through having emotional intelligence to navigate conflict, to showing up in times of hardship.

Most men will resent you for trying to teach them to feel their emotions, they will resent you for asking them to wash the dishes. They will do the bare minimum to keep you content and gaslight and manipulate their way out of everything else.

They often see women as interchangeable service staff.

With way fewer exceptions than I thought: most men are incredibly selfish, profoundly imature and intentionally incompetent in anything that's even vaguely coded as feminine labour within society.

Emphasis on the intentionally incompetent part. They don't want to learn, they want to be coddled.

No estoy preparada pero si estoy muy emocionada 🫣🫢