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They say 1 in 4 girls.

I look at my daughter and my sister’s two, and that’s only 3.

Then I look at my daughter and my sister-in-law’s two. That’s only 3.

Then I remember that my Mother has two sisters. That’s only 3.
And one of them was raped by one of her 4 brothers.

Numbers won’t save them.
July 23, 2025 at 12:50 AM
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The news really sucks today.

Instead of boosting a harmful Supreme Court decision, here’s something better:
a practical guide on how to support the LGBTQ+ youth in your life.

Because they deserve our attention, our protection, and our love. 💖🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/ar...
Friends & Family Support Systems for LGBTQ+ Youth
Discover ways to support LGBTQ+ young people through FAQs and educational resources for friends and family members.
www.thetrevorproject.org
June 18, 2025 at 3:12 PM
Was silly and looked at medical test information in the online portal during a holiday weekend. Now I have to wait until Tuesday to find out if all this anxiety is warranted 😩
May 25, 2025 at 12:59 AM
Halfway done with the temperature blanket I’m crocheting for my daughter, for the year and city she was born in. Proud of myself for keeping with it this long, gonna see it through to the end!

It’s been a great distraction from doomscrolling this year.

#crochet #workinprogress
April 27, 2025 at 9:46 PM
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Of course Corey Booker’s feat was performative. He’s performing resistance. The rest of the Dems should try it some time.
April 2, 2025 at 2:28 PM
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Thank you, Senator Cory Booker! #Resist
April 1, 2025 at 10:37 PM
January done! 😍
February 8, 2025 at 1:45 AM
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Denali, Gulf of Mexico, facism... We will call it what it is no matter what he insists on calling it
February 7, 2025 at 10:51 PM
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Dorothy B. Porter changed libraries 💜

The Dewey Decimal System used to only have two classifications for Black people: 325 (colonization) & 326 (slavery). Each book by a Black person was put into one of these classifications. A book of poetry? Classified as colonization.

Enter Dorothy B. Porter 🧵
February 3, 2025 at 3:47 PM
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Hello friends. Let’s start this morning off with a pep talk.
The overwhelm, confusion, and fear you’re feeling is what they want you to feel. They want you helpless, hopeless, and paralyzed. Do not take their intimidation and do not give them your joy.
February 4, 2025 at 1:15 PM
On February 1st she was not recovering from Covid, it was not raining, and no one she loved died. So the outside Christmas decorations finally came down.

The inside decorations may come down as well. But first she needs a little rest and hydration.
February 1, 2025 at 9:55 PM
First row (Jan 1-16) done! 🤩
February 1, 2025 at 6:10 PM
I have been to several mental health specialists, and my current therapist is by far my favorite. She frequently drops “motherfudgecake” when I tell her things during our sessions and it is an absolute delight.
January 31, 2025 at 11:59 PM
This $3.39 lunch brought to you by DEI
January 31, 2025 at 6:17 PM
I’m so numb I felt basically nothing at the funeral of a family member today.

So then I put in a new earring stack and turned my bogg bag into my crochet project organizer.

My therapist is gonna be earning every penny of that copay at our appointment tomorrow/today.
January 31, 2025 at 6:29 AM
First week done!
January 29, 2025 at 5:46 AM
Just screamed along to the entirety of this album on my drive home. Highly recommend if you need a guttural emotional release. Somehow still knew every word. Sorry not sorry to any fellow Nashville motorists who may have overheard me.
January 27, 2025 at 11:06 PM
The 6yo and I bought yarn today. I am going to make a temperature blanket of 2018, her birth year. I plan to make and consume a lot more art this year, and this will be one part of that.
January 26, 2025 at 3:25 AM
This has been a very hard week mentally and emotionally. A family member used a gun to end their life, & a teenager in my community used a gun to end the life of another & themselves. The same week it feels like we’ve put a loaded gun aimed at democracy & decency in the White House.
January 25, 2025 at 1:20 AM
Costco is gonna get so much of my money.
January 25, 2025 at 1:06 AM
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As of today, trans and nonbinary people still exist, will continue to exist, and have always existed.
January 20, 2025 at 7:02 PM
How is Severence on Apple TV so good when I don’t know what the hell is going on?
January 18, 2025 at 4:33 AM
Using my day off to purge/rearrange the playroom. The Mid Project Regret Syndrome is real. 😬
January 17, 2025 at 5:53 PM
Back at work today (masked) and it’s been basically 20min working on my feet and then 30min working at the computer cause I has a tired. Covid literally sucks the life out of you. Ugh.
January 13, 2025 at 7:08 PM