Anyways forget 50 Shades of Grey and watch this instead

- Shows kink as something that can be dark and sexy, but also fun, clumsy, cute, awkward, goofy
- Very erotic, very little focus on sex and bodies, focuses on the psychological arousal of their power exchange

- and overall very good representation of BDSM
- Addresses how predators can use BDSM as a tool to assault people, and that the problem is their bad intentions and not BDSM itself
- Very realistic of post-assault reaction
- Shows the stigma around BDSM and how it can affect someone’s work life

- The guy’s written by a woman and it shows, his masculinity isn’t shaped to please patriarchal men
- Being a sub is never linked with him being less of a man or whatsoever
- Wide range of kinks explored considering it’s a mainstream movie (puppy play!!)
- Good definitions of BDSM vocab

- The woman is the Dominant
- Asian woman not written for a White audience: she’s neither a "cherry blossom" nor a "dragon lady"
- Shows that kink and romance can be mixed together
- Shows that kinkshaming can truly impact one’s sense of self-worth

I like my men’s faces like my sex: rough

« To embrace patriarchy, they (boys) must actively surrender the longing to love. »

It’s a long thread to say idgaf if drawing a trans man being fem & smol & breedable is transphobic anymore bc I’d rather care for that trans man who lives in a country that makes him an outlaw for existing lmfao

When I was younger I thought this meant being a traitor and neglectful to others. But I realize it makes me able to save so much energy, anger and action for shit that’s actually important. Maybe the 30s aren’t so bad after all

I see smth that makes me feel uneasy. I weigh wether it would truly impede of somebody’s dignity or wellbeing. If it doesn’t, or not to a point that’s not easily solvable by self-reflect then idgaf.

There are so much stuff I see today that would’ve sent me off to outrage in my late teens/early twenties that I just let go now.

In the 90s during the era of print catalogs, Regulation released 3 magazines showing off their collections and they are the most beautiful pieces of fetish salesmanship I've EVER seen. The vision, the fantasy, the execution. It is all absolutely blindingly brilliant.