i cant let this wait much longer. its been affecting my everyday emotions for the worse and i need to get this over with

this is being written right after dealing with a person like this. the entire time it was happening i wanted to just say "is it your goal to make everyone else feel stupid?"

hes a good guy but i just cant deal with the fact that he would refuse to share extremely important information with me, + it was exhausting to deal with how emotionally sensitive he was sometimes. i get he's had a rough life regarding his family but i just. idk

it eventually goes away
i don't know if it goes away on its own or if i do something that makes me happy
i don't notice the things that make me happy anymore

i still am trying to figure out what it is that irked him so much. for seemingly no reason he began holding a grudge against both me and my boyfriend, and it culminated into him straight up insulting both of us unwarranted in a groupchat before he got kicked for that

he honestly has a good point with that i think. for the record he 100% supports me being not 100% male. and knowing him i had a feeling there would be some kind of random concern like this

i believe the main difference is that i choose not to have that kind of thing on my feed, and i find myself enjoying bluesky way more than i ever enjoyed twitter. sure, theres a lot less people, but anything to get away from twitter