Its truly bizarre when you realize it. I remember reading a post where a doctor was like "Of we have a violent revolution, a lot of innocent people die because supply chains". And the comments being "Oh, so screw everyone dying now?" Or worse "your complict you deserve it".

I'd say, take joy in this victory and keep fighting for all the anonymous people who don't have someone to notice they're gone.

Is that not a normal phrase?

Its used in practically all baking. Vanilla is the primary flavor for desserts.