I propose I be the arbiter of wokeness for straight women.

Not that I'm expecting the Democrats to end the war if/when they get control back

Most drag events we get here have cis women and trans masc performers. I don't really go to many but I don't think I've ever seen a typical drag queen performance here.

I think the tone she chose was chosen specifically to rile transphobic cis ppl.

bullshit and that there are probably many repressed trans men.

Their argument is taking the same dose of testosterone as a trans man and not feeling dysphoria is likely an indication of repressed transness. I remember when I was first transitioning constantly seeing various stats about how there are 3 times as many trans women as men and thinking that that's

Local scenes are like snowflakes I'm sure it is. But you can't pretend like the light TERF rhetoric you see on Tumblr doesn't leak out into the real world everywhere. I'm sure if where I am could sustain more than one scene there'd be a terfy scene and a non-terfy one.

My options are west coast swing, slasa and bachata

I've seen it in mainstream queer scenes irl. These communities only tolerate trans men on testosterone if they perform enough femininity to appear non threatening and constantly go on about their AFAB womanly essence.