MovePastDivorce
@movepastdivorce.bsky.social
Therapist, author, relationship expert who loves to write and blog about communication, marriage, divorce, and stepfamilies. Owner of movingpastdivorce.com and contributor to The Gottman Institute blog, Pathos, and TheGoodMenProject.com, and other sites.
8 Signs You’re At Risk For An Unhealthy #Relationship movingpastdivorce.com/2023/09/8-si...
8 Signs You’re At Risk For An Unhealthy Relationship - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, LICSW The best partner will compliment you and bring out your finer qualities. When you are with him or her, you will begin to see untapped possibilities within yourself and in the w...
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December 5, 2025 at 2:53 AM
8 Signs You’re At Risk For An Unhealthy #Relationship movingpastdivorce.com/2023/09/8-si...
Opposites Attract But Can They Stay Together? movingpastdivorce.com/2024/03/oppo...
Opposites Attract But Can They Stay Together? - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW From the time I started dating at age sixteen, I’ve often found myself attracted to my polar opposite – for better and for worse. Likewise, I’ve counseled many couples who...
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December 5, 2025 at 2:51 AM
Opposites Attract But Can They Stay Together? movingpastdivorce.com/2024/03/oppo...
6 Signs Your Partner is Good Marriage Material movingpastdivorce.com/2018/09/6-si...
6 Signs Your Partner is Good Marriage Material - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard MSW, LICSW Who we choose to marry is one of the most important and costliest decisions a person will make, yet it’s not uncommon for lovers to make errors in judgment. Why does this h...
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December 5, 2025 at 2:47 AM
6 Signs Your Partner is Good Marriage Material movingpastdivorce.com/2018/09/6-si...
How to Recover From Arguments With Your Partner #marriage movingpastdivorce.com/2025/04/how-...
How to Recover From Arguments With Your Partner - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, LICSW In the beginning of their relationship, Kate, 42, and Evan, 44, were so elated to have discovered each other that they focused more on their similarities than differences. They...
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December 5, 2025 at 2:45 AM
How to Recover From Arguments With Your Partner #marriage movingpastdivorce.com/2025/04/how-...
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December 4, 2025 at 12:04 PM
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7 Ways To Let Go of Someone Who Treats You Badly movingpastdivorce.com/2016/11/7-wa...
7 Ways To Let Go of Someone Who Treats You Badly - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW Letting go of toxic relationships is never easy. Yet with self-awareness and tools, you can begin to value yourself enough to set better boundaries with a partner. It is p...
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December 4, 2025 at 11:58 AM
7 Ways To Let Go of Someone Who Treats You Badly movingpastdivorce.com/2016/11/7-wa...
How to heal from #financial infidelity by Terry Gaspard www.gottman.com/blog/financi...
Financial Infidelity Can Put Your Relationship At Risk
Financial infidelity can be as harmful to your relationship as other kinds of betrayal. Are there secrets about money in your relationship?
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December 4, 2025 at 11:55 AM
How to heal from #financial infidelity by Terry Gaspard www.gottman.com/blog/financi...
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2024/09/how-...
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT Your attachment style and degree of individuation determine your partnership choices and relationship satisfaction. The process of individuation—becoming an individual—allo...
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December 4, 2025 at 11:53 AM
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2024/09/how-...
9 Warning Signs Your Marriage Is Headed For #Divorce movingpastdivorce.com/2015/12/9-wa...
9 Warning Signs Your Marriage Is Headed For Divorce - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW Trust be told, red flags usually appear fairly early on in a relationship that can signal eventual disaster if people don’t pay attention to them. Most of the couples I’ve...
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December 4, 2025 at 11:51 AM
9 Warning Signs Your Marriage Is Headed For #Divorce movingpastdivorce.com/2015/12/9-wa...
6 Surefire Ways to Apologize to Your Partner #marriage movingpastdivorce.com/2024/10/6-su...
6 Surefire Ways to Apologize to Your Partner - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, LICSW There are many reasons why you or your partner may have difficulty apologizing to one another. For instance, you might equate apologizing with weakness and it’s widely believed...
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December 4, 2025 at 11:49 AM
6 Surefire Ways to Apologize to Your Partner #marriage movingpastdivorce.com/2024/10/6-su...
The Remarriage Manual can transform your #marriage or #remarriage by offering surefire strategies! by Terry Gaspard - a relationship expert who knows the secrets to a happy marriage or remarriage firsthand. movingpastdivorce.com/the-re-marraig
December 4, 2025 at 11:48 AM
The Remarriage Manual can transform your #marriage or #remarriage by offering surefire strategies! by Terry Gaspard - a relationship expert who knows the secrets to a happy marriage or remarriage firsthand. movingpastdivorce.com/the-re-marraig
Justice at its best is love correcting everything that stands against love.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
December 4, 2025 at 11:44 AM
Justice at its best is love correcting everything that stands against love.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
How to Overcome Fear of #Abandonment movingpastdivorce.com/2025/04/how-...
How to Overcome Fear of Abandonment - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, LICSW Suzanne, 35, sat on the couch in my office and described her fear of being left by her partner, Devon, age 38. Although they’ve been together for five years (and lived together...
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December 4, 2025 at 1:10 AM
How to Overcome Fear of #Abandonment movingpastdivorce.com/2025/04/how-...
5 Ways That Your Belief In A Soul Mate Is Holding You Back movingpastdivorce.com/2014/10/5-wa...
5 Ways That Your Belief In A Soul Mate Is Holding You Back - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Lisa Arends I’ve never been one to believe in soul mates. Even when my 22-year-old self said “I do” to the man I thought was perfect for me, I didn’t perceive him as “the one.” And that idea may ha...
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December 4, 2025 at 1:08 AM
5 Ways That Your Belief In A Soul Mate Is Holding You Back movingpastdivorce.com/2014/10/5-wa...
8 Ways to Deal Effectively With #Conflict in Intimate Relationships movingpastdivorce.com/2025/11/8-wa...
8 Ways to Deal Effectively With Conflict in Intimate Relationships - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard MSW, LICSW Many of the couples I counsel find that they fall into cyclical and unhealthy patterns when conflict arises. Fights occur and reoccur that concern the same issues, and ofte...
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December 4, 2025 at 1:06 AM
8 Ways to Deal Effectively With #Conflict in Intimate Relationships movingpastdivorce.com/2025/11/8-wa...
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2024/09/how-...
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT Your attachment style and degree of individuation determine your partnership choices and relationship satisfaction. The process of individuation—becoming an individual—allo...
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December 3, 2025 at 12:48 PM
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2024/09/how-...
Signs of Healthy Boundaries in #Relationships movingpastdivorce.com/2022/11/sign...
Signs of Healthy Boundaries in Relationships - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
As a separate individual with healthy boundaries, you show other people the same respect. You have no need for other people to agree with you, and you don’t bother to show them you’re right and they’r...
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December 3, 2025 at 12:47 PM
Signs of Healthy Boundaries in #Relationships movingpastdivorce.com/2022/11/sign...
5 Ways to Make Small Gestures Count in Your #Marriage movingpastdivorce.com/2024/04/5-wa...
5 Ways to Make Small Gestures Count in Your Marriage - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW Elena, 48, and Jason, 52, have been married fifteen years and came to counseling to improve their communication and to stop bickering. Like many couples who I counsel, I a...
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December 3, 2025 at 12:45 PM
5 Ways to Make Small Gestures Count in Your #Marriage movingpastdivorce.com/2024/04/5-wa...
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by doing the thing which you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt
December 3, 2025 at 12:40 PM
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by doing the thing which you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt
5 Ways to Recognize and Cope With a #Narcissistic Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2025/02/5-wa...
5 Ways to Recognize and Cope With a Narcissistic Partner - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard, LICSW Ashley, thirty-seven, sat on the coach at my office and described the challenges in her relationship with her husband Kevin, age thirty-nine. They’ve been married for ten years...
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December 3, 2025 at 12:34 PM
5 Ways to Recognize and Cope With a #Narcissistic Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2025/02/5-wa...
Let's Talk About #Money:Low-Conflict Conversations for Couples by Terry Gaspard www.amazon.com/Lets-Talk-Ab...
December 3, 2025 at 12:23 PM
Let's Talk About #Money:Low-Conflict Conversations for Couples by Terry Gaspard www.amazon.com/Lets-Talk-Ab...
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by doing the thing which you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt
December 3, 2025 at 12:17 PM
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by doing the thing which you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt
Why I Kept My Debt Secret from My Husband movingpastdivorce.com/2018/11/why-...
Why I Kept My Debt Secret from My Husband - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Terry Gaspard MSW, LICSW Learning how to have productive, low-conflict discussions about money is essential to handling finances in a healthy way. Finances are a touchy subject for all couples and ...
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December 3, 2025 at 2:34 AM
Why I Kept My Debt Secret from My Husband movingpastdivorce.com/2018/11/why-...
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2024/09/how-...
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner - Moving Past Divorce | Counseling, Consulting & Seminars (RI & MA)
By Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT Your attachment style and degree of individuation determine your partnership choices and relationship satisfaction. The process of individuation—becoming an individual—allo...
movingpastdivorce.com
December 3, 2025 at 2:34 AM
How Attachment Style Determines Your Choices in a Partner movingpastdivorce.com/2024/09/how-...
"Let's Talk About #Money" by Terry Gaspard www.amazon.com/Lets-Talk-Ab...
December 3, 2025 at 2:33 AM
"Let's Talk About #Money" by Terry Gaspard www.amazon.com/Lets-Talk-Ab...