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mosscaller.bsky.social
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@mosscaller.bsky.social
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🌘 | Lvl 34 | She/They | amateur writer/artist | ♿ | meme lord/shitposter | general garbage entity | ACAB BLM

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#bpd #bipolar #fibro #Bisexual #gamer #ao3writer #smutlover #monsterfudger

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mosscaller.bsky.social
I have friends that understand when I have to cancel.

Sure, are they disappointed? Absolutely.

But I have absolutely no control over how my #disability is going to effect my day to day. I just have to plan accordingly.

#depression #spoonie #chronicillness #fibromyalgia #neuropathy
( ID: Tumblr user bebsi-cola: if you're disabled and you have to cancel some plans because of disability, you're allowed to be upset by it. i think the notion of letting the other person down, and some people treating cancellations as your fault kinda makes it seem like the disabled person wanted to cancel. or that the disabled person wasn't managing their own time, energy, health, or money better and that's why they had to cancel. and it might have been plans you were really looking forward to. of course you're allowed to be upset or angry that something has stopped your activities. even if that thing is your own disability. especially if it's you own disability )
November 24, 2025 at 9:24 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
I love this!

There are so many ways to be kind and give to others. It doesn't always have to be money.

#hopepunk #kindness #hope
( ID: Tumblr user hyrude: is the world really such a terrible place? yesterday i asked if oat milk was extra and the barista said yes so i said ok just regular milk then and when she gave me my chai latte she whispered “i used oat milk ;)” doesnt that make u want to live another day? Tumblr user hyrude: here is my life philosophy: next week there might be someone ahead of you in line at the store who’s short a quarter and you have a quarter and you can give it to them. if you weren’t there, they’d have to put something back. the week after that you could be getting lunch and the waiter might ask if you want some pancakes someone else ordered and never picked up. you could find someone’s lost cat. you could watch someone’s bag while they go to the restroom. there are so many ways you are going to touch other people’s lives and they are going to touch yours and there’s no way to know when it’s going to happen. so you have to keep living!!! i wouldn’t want to die knowing that tomorrow the barista will give me free oat milk just to be nice. )
November 24, 2025 at 6:52 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
We're all adults.

Stop using the wrong words to describe basic biology.

If you can read smut, you can handle this.

#womensrights #period
( ID: Tumblr user presidentdragon: "that time of the month" "monthly visitor" "feminine hygiene products" GRRAH!!! SHUT UP SHUT UP!!! PERIOD!! MENSTRUATION!!!! TAMPONS!!! PADS!! MENOPAUSE!!!!!!!!!!! Tumblr user tyke-dyke: VAGINA!!!! )
November 24, 2025 at 4:54 AM
mosscaller.bsky.social
I've said for a long time that children deserve quality entertainment as much as adults do. So many kids shows abandoning deep complex plots in favor of much simpler everything is solved in twenty minutes plotlines is a tragedy.

#stopneuteringentertainment #children
( ID: Tumblr user bodhrancomedy: Look, it’s a weird hill to die on, especially when I don’t really explain, but children deserve to experience fear, disgust, and discomfort in safe scenarios where they can process those sensations. Media for children used to be scary and that’s important. Tumblr user aetherograph: Media for children used to have sensuality--not just fear, but also a sort of fleshiness, a wide breadth of sensations. There was weird surreal stuff that may have been Nightmare Fuel or may have been Fetish Fuel, depending on who was watching it. Women had boobs and jiggly parts, not just smooth barbie doll curves. Bad things happened. Scary things happened. WEIRD things happened. People got tied up, or fell in goop, or transformed into animals, or blew up like a balloon, or a thousand other things that, once the mainstream became aware could be someone's fetish (despite none of that being inherently sexual--the whole point of a fetish is that it's having sexual feelings for something that isn't sex), they freaked 0ut and stopped including. Which severely hampered the story and made it boring and empty of humanity. Humans are made of meat. Art needs to be made of meat also. The puritanical panic will and has destroyed art. Until you let the fuck go of it, you won't make good art. We are in a second Victorian era where all stories have to have a Moral Lesson and it's fucked up. Let art be for arts sake. Stop with this fash bullshit. )
November 22, 2025 at 5:14 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Disabled resources should be given to those that need them. We should not have to jump through hoops.

#disabled #chronicallyill #spoonie #disability
( ID: Tumblr user miinobobeano: It bothers me so much that the healthcare system relies so much on the patient's ability to advocate for themselves, organize their history, and be so persistent against every medical “professional” who says there’s nothing wrong/they can do. But so many struggle with fatigue, brain fog, and face such ingrained systemic barriers, that the people who need and deserve help and support can’t access it. I saw something recently that resonated with me: “Access shouldn't depend on who has the energy to fight for it.” And I’ve never agreed with anything more. )
November 21, 2025 at 4:10 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Hey @tumblr.com why are you flagging resource links as sexually mature?

#browhat
( ID: A screenshot of a tumblr post, being flagged as "mature content" when in reality it's a few links to help transgender people find resources. )
November 20, 2025 at 9:44 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
You need to understand putting your own opinions on another's practice is a good way to get side eyed.

An opinion is like an asshole, everyone has one but so few wish to see it.

Be kind and mind your P's and Q's.

#pagansky #witchsky
( ID: - Not every witch is a wiccan - Not every witch believes in the three-fold law - be whatever kind of witch you wanna be - drink some water today )
November 20, 2025 at 7:47 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Learn Trans history and understand why we need to continue to lift their voices. Especially those that have been stolen.

Hateful people don't want them to be heard. They don't want Trans people to safely exist.

#TransLivesMatter #POCTransLivesMatter #DisabledTransLivesMatter #AlwaysPunchNazis
( ID: Tumblr user makingqueerhistory: Queer history isn't just a duty, it's a pleasure. Learning about the history of the queer community does more than make you a better community member. It also just makes life seem less overwhelming. In a world where your feelings of powerlessness benefit the powerful, seeking historical precedent for being the underdog has worth. Learning the stories of queer anti-fascists making zines to scare off Nazis is fun (Claude Cahun). Exploring the history of a radical newspaper that somehow turned into a cultural touchstone is a drama-filled journey and often so funny (The Village Voice). Reading queer peoples' diaries is generally a wild ride (Vaslav Nijinsky). The reason so many people are drawn to these stories is not just because they are morally important, it's because they capture attention. They are interesting, and weird, and sometimes hilarious. Queer history is important, of course. But it's also pleasurable, and understanding that is often the best motivation to start learning. As someone who is constantly researching this subject, the self-pitying cries of "but no one taught us this!" is getting a bit old. No one taught you this because they wanted to keep you disempowered, and by giving into that, you let them win. Do something. Learn. )
November 20, 2025 at 7:45 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Think about how ridiculous it was when people started praising Dick Cheney after he died, apply this feeling to the still living.

Both of them are awful human beings that are massively irredeemable.

#punk
( ID: Tumblr user jarmes: I feel like I’m going insane You do not, under any circumstances, have to hand it to Marjorie Taylor Greene. She is not a good person. She is not your ally Greene began her political career because she beloved that there was a Satan worshiping Jewish deep state that was secretly kidnapping, raping, and murdering white Christian babies as part of ritualistic sacrifice She has now turned on Trump, not because he is a fascist, but because she believes he is an agent of the Satan worshipping Jewish deep state. She’s a fucking neo Nazi! And she doesn’t stop being a neo Nazi because she thinks Trump is part of the Jewish deep state She is not your ally. Stop praising her )
November 19, 2025 at 5:49 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Between the band, the art and your vibes...

My brain doesn't know what to feel. So Imma just..
( ID: A poorly drawn image of a stick figure licking their computer monitor. )
November 17, 2025 at 5:27 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Go on, you may hug me.

#bpd #autism #shitpost #cptsd
( ID: A figure in elaborate spiked armor, with a metal mask and red lips, holds an axe. White text reads "I desire intimacy," )
November 17, 2025 at 1:08 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
It's too accurate.

#bpd #meme #shitpost
( ID: A pink ballet heel labeled "me" steps into a bear trap labeled "my unhealthy risk-taking behavior".. )
November 17, 2025 at 1:07 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
I feel it's important to state that distress tolerance doesn't mean having to put up with things. Sometimes the best coping mechanism is walking away.

#disabled #chronicallyill #spoonie #cripplepunk
( ID: Tumblr user alchemistdoctor: I am begging you. Please learn about stress/discomfort tolerance. Practice raising it. You need this to survive. If someone online can ruin your day with a throwaway comment, you desperately need to understand discomfort tolerance and consciously, systematically build that shit. Also! Stress tolerance is such an important skill that having a learning disability in that area is a major symptom of a whole lot of other disabilities/mental illnesses! Struggling with it is a huge part of life! It sucks! Am I saying everyone with misophonia needs to listen to chewing noises all day? No. But you need to find ways to tolerate it enough that you don't treat others like shit if they make a mouth noise near you. No, you don't have to read the fic with your trigger tags. But you do need to be able to handle scrolling past the tags without being upset. It is hard! But not having it also makes you so so so easy to manipulate. That grandma is racist AF because her mom raised her to be uncomfortable around black people and she never fought that discomfort. Trans people make so many cis people uncomfortable and that discomfort turns into bigotry real fast. Letting your discomfort dictate your actions and beliefs about things is a great way to become a terrible person. Learn. Discomfort. Tolerance. )
November 17, 2025 at 1:01 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Just in case someone needed it.

#disabled #hopepunk #disability #depression
( ID: Tumblr user thesweetiepienovels: Actually, you are enough. Even if you don’t work. Or study. Or go out. Or have friends. Or have family. You’re enough because you exist and your existence is enough to be enough because you are not a product. You are not a sum of output. You are not a task to complete. But because you are something the universe wanted and put here even if you’ll never understand why. Somewhere in the cosmos your existence makes a difference, even if it’s not the way others existences do. Tumblr user themonsterundermystairs: your mere existence proves that there is magic left in this world, you make a difference and you matter )
November 14, 2025 at 8:36 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
If you decide to be a parent, you need to get comfortable with topics like this so children can be raised with proper knowledge. Not the shit you deem is acceptable.

Otherwise, history repeats itself.

#parenting
( ID: Tumblr user femalegothic: I think children are perfectly capable of understanding complex topics like slavery and racism, especially if you explain it in age-appropriate terms. Like sure an 8 year old isn’t going to be able to fully grasp the horrors of chattel slavery but they absolutely can understand that there was a time in American history where white people forced black people work without pay and conceptualize the arbitrariness of racism, especially if they have a mixed race friend group. I think it’s actually the parents that are uncomfortable trying to approach difficult topics with their kids and that’s why you have so many up in arms about critical race theory in schools because they’re too chicken shit to talk to their own children. )
November 14, 2025 at 4:08 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Doctors are scientists and the scientific method asks for the ability to change when given new data.

We should be able to send them follow-up information on where they were wrong so they can learn to not dismiss future patients.

#disabled #chronicallyill #spoonie
( ID: Tumblr user the-lincyclopedia: This maybe sounds mean, but I think we should be able to send doctors “hey, you were wrong” letters. I was misdiagnosed with asthma when I was 12 and took asthma meds daily for seven years, and then it turned out I hadn’t had asthma in the first place; I actually have a different breathing problem. I don’t think the doctor who told me I had asthma (my pediatrician, who I was no longer seeing by that point) ever found out she’d been wrong. (This is one of at least four misdiagnoses in my life, from a variety of doctors, that I can think of off the top of my head.) Similarly, my first therapist told me she didn’t think I was autistic because I wasn’t obsessed with trains. I don’t think she ever found out that I am, in fact, autistic, because I wasn’t seeing her by the time I was diagnosed. I get that it might be demoralizing to have someone contact you specifically to tell you that you messed up, but I think it would be useful for doctors to have data on how often they misdiagnose patients, especially since some doctors tend to think the patient is generally wrong when attempting self-diagnosis. It would be useful for my former therapist to move me from the mental column of “people who erroneously think they’re autistic” to “people whose autism I did not notice when they were right in front of me.” It would be useful for my pediatrician to realize she needed to look more closely and listen to kids when their breathing symptoms weren’t the classic asthma ones. Doctors can get on their high horse and refuse to believe patients a lot of the time, and the power dynamic makes that dangerous in plenty of situations. I think it would be helpful to have a way to at least alert doctors when we have proof they messed up. )
November 14, 2025 at 4:07 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
I don't think it's that everyone is a little autistic, I think it people just forget the all autistic people are human.

#autism #autistic
( ID: Tumblr user whumpydaydreams: "everyone's a little autistic" not true rude actually minimizing a disability "everyone's a little weird" true human brains are very different not diagnosing random people works for neurotypicals too )
November 14, 2025 at 4:05 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Me, whenever I find a new character to fawn over.

#whitehair #traumabby #whyamilikethis
( ID: Of course you have white hair and trauma. )
November 12, 2025 at 7:36 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
This is something I needed to learn - because I shut down whenever I get upset and then I isolate. Which is a huge problem when you're in a relationship.

I don't want to shut my fiancée out. She doesn't deserve that.

#mentalhealth #emotionalwellness
( ID: Tumblr user borderlinereminders: It takes real strength to say, “I don’t like this part of myself, and I want to work on it.” We all have traits shaped by trauma, by survival, by what we were modelled growing up. But when those traits start to harm us, or harm the people we care about, it’s our responsibility to notice and adjust. “I shut down every time someone’s upset” “I guilt-trip when I feel abandoned” “I lash out before I explain how I feel” These examples aren’t how it has to be. They’re starting points for change. You aren’t doomed or irredeemable. Saying “That’s just the way I am” might feel protective in the moment but over time, it can become a wall between us and the relationships we want to build. Healing means learning to say: ”This is how I’ve been but it’s not how I have to stay.” “I’m allowed to outgrow my old coping mechanisms.” “I want to become safer for myself and for others.” Change doesn’t make you less you. It makes you a version of you that can breathe easier, love deeper, and communicate more clearly. It can improve your quality of life and make your relationships more fulfilling. )
November 12, 2025 at 4:40 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
It's the little things, ya know?

Self cared myself so hard I don't even resemble myself.

This is after days of a horrible depressive slump.

#disabled #gothpunk #goth #genderqueer #lgbtqia #bpd #bipolar #depression
( ID: Someone with curly black hair and facial piercings smiles slightly at the camera. She has piercing deep brown eyes. The room is slightly cluttered with curios and various books. )
November 12, 2025 at 4:36 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
My old man, all bundled up in his "winter wear" after a nice walk.

It's in the 50's here, so per the vet and my anxiety, I got him all trussed up in warm gear. ( He was not happy about the hat, but his little ears need to be protected. )

#thepabutag #dog #elderlydog #seniordog
( ID: An Elderly dog in a festive red and green Christmas sweater lays curled up on a brown and white patterned cow blanket.)
November 11, 2025 at 1:57 PM
mosscaller.bsky.social
Speaking from experience, after not being able to write or 14 years - please take time for yourself and breathe. Relax. Don't rush your work.

#artistcommunity #writercommunity #autism #adhd #burnout
( ID: I cannot stress enough how important it is to write at you own pace. To give your mind and spirit room to breathe, to process your creativity and allow it to come organically to you. Goals and discipline are a good and necessary part of any hobby, especially writing, but so is rest. Rest prevents burn out. And if you push yourself until you burn out you will wind up taking even longer to complete projects or meet goals. Even if you are already burn out that's okay. This is your sign to give yourself the grace to take breaks. Your story, your muses, your brilliant ideas will be waiting for you to pick them up with proper enthusiasm when you're ready. )
November 9, 2025 at 11:22 AM
mosscaller.bsky.social
I feel like self depreciation requires tact, actual humor and good timing to be worth it.

Some people just start shitting on themselves too much, and at the wrong times and in ways that can be more concerning or sad than humorous and that makes people uncomfortable.

#darkhumor #selfdeprecation
( ID: Tumblr user homeboygirl: learning that self deprecation isnt cool and just makes the people around you uncomfortable unironically improved my mental health a lot. like if you just stop saying negative shit about yourself you will genuinely like yourself more and other people wont be repulsed by your attitude and you will have more friends. it's true. )
November 9, 2025 at 10:58 AM
mosscaller.bsky.social
And do it NOW. Not later, when you will not be able to think of what you were going to do, or do anything about it.

#winter #comfort
( ID: Tumblr user suggestionsofkindness: If you live somewhere where it gets darker now, here’s a few reminders: - You can put up fairy lights at any time and leave them up for as long as you want - Get out if you can, while there is still light outside - Make it as cosy for yourself as you can. Dial up the comfort and the cosy, whatever that looks like to you - Make plans to look forward to - More people than we sometimes realize are affected, be cosy with your friends in person, call them or have a facetime hang out with tea or a movie. Maybe go for a short walk together or meet up for coffee, so you get out a bit too. - You have made it through the darkness before, you can do it again. If you think back and remember something that helped you the last time, draw on that again Tumblr user sage-thyme: - Try to get outside, even if it means bundling up a ton. Fresh air and sunlight are good, and it makes you feel less trapped in your house! - Try to get exercise in, whether it’s at the gym, at-home workout, whatever Tumblr user lttrsfrmlnrrgby: Take your vitamins-- B complex, D, C, maybe some fish oil, combat that darkness-induced lethargy Eat citrus regularly bc vitamins aside, you deserve bright, sweet things Create a specific Cozy Drink Time and stick to it, let your 3:30 cup of tea be a pause to just sit and drink something warming ) ( ID: Tumblr user elljayvee: Last year, in a memorable meeting, our grad students starting pounding the table chanting "TINNED FISH TINNED FISH". Winter is, indeed, tinned fish season. If you eat fish at all, tinned fish can make your winter less The Worst. Tumblr user daemonluna: Here are some more tips, for although I am pretty south for Canada, I am more north than many of you. Put your fairy lights/string lights on timers. It doesn't even need to be fancy. Take a string of lights, plunk them into a big glass bowl, and set them in a dark-ish corner on a timer to come on when it starts to get darker, and go off around bedtime. Instant cozy and you don't need to remember to turn them on. Seconding the advice to get outside, and get some winter gear that is not only warm enough, but something that you like! If wearing cute mittens with bunnies on them, or an extra-soft scarf, or a bright red coat, is going to lift your mood and make you even slightly more likely to go outside and like it, do it. (Also, dress for the weather you have, not the weather you want. Layers and wool and something windproof are my go-to's where I am...) I second and third the vitamin D advice. Also, light therapy lamps. You can get little travel-sized ones that will sit on a table beside you. I turn mine on in the morning while I'm drinking my coffee and checking email so it's part of the regular routine. Sciiiience! )
November 9, 2025 at 10:56 AM
mosscaller.bsky.social
I adore leaning into hope.

#hopepunk #hope #kindness
( ID: Tumblr user tropics777: And in these next 50 years you will eat so many delicious meals, laugh so many times with so many people you love, shout and scream and sing and cry and smile so hard your face hurts. And you will see such beautiful sunsets and feel fresh cold air on your face and feel warm and safe wrapped up in your favourite winter coat. Tumblr user wizard-council-bureaucrat: I wrap this blessing around you like a shroud, so that no ill can find you, and every warmth is held close )
November 9, 2025 at 10:54 AM