ooph, so not candy 🍬

… now I really want to know what it was instead!

ooph, I hope it all works out and you can handle it on your own going forward! 🤞🏻

if you have the correct sort of PoA (presumably it needs to be specific to financial things), and have registered it with the right authorities, the bank should absolutely accept is in lieu of your mother being there. have they said why they won’t?

a lot of empathy, dear friend, as someone who also really struggles with loudness 🫂

do you actually get paid on the weekends? in past when a pay date fell on a weekend, I would get it the friday before.

I keep meaning to ask, what *do* you do? :)

also, just… of all the bullshit things to police. who the fuck cares? “yeees, we have foiled his evil genius by pointing out that a woman he called an aunt is really only… a cousin!” there are so many cultures that call ALL older family friends aunt/uncle as a sign of respect.

we have young cousins that we *think* of as our nieces and nephews… it just represents the relationship more genuinely.

🤬

for a minute I was really excited that this was about making one’s own tofu! is this device as useful for someone who only cooks with soft tofu?

yup!

that is the nonsense of “holidays”, you have to actually be allowed to do less work or what’s the point?!

I don’t understand how you’re ever supposed to take holiday; every time you try it backfires 😢

… unless you gave one away or had one donated to you 🤔

Vallejo, CA - mostly because it’s a trap. if you try to pronounce it as though it’s a spanish word you’d be wrong… but equally wrong if you pretend it’s an american word 😂