"If you keep things bottled up you'll lose friends!! You have to communicate!!" Okay well lived experience so far consistently tells me that honesty and open communication get me yelled at and abandoned while staying isolated keeps everyone happy, so what the hell am I actually supposed to do

Starting to get kind of pissed off at how many posts I'm seeing lately about "you have to communicate, not avoid everyone" because Yes this advice applies to me but I'm sure they're all telling themselves that this is just me failing to communicate when I've tried repeatedly and been rejected for it

A freaking. three-follower porn account that I have all of them blocked on is the only place I feel like I can even express the fact that I'm hurt to begin with because I'm so wary that anything I say or do anywhere will get back to them and become another reason to judge me

It happens immediately but she doesn't actually notice for like, three years because none of the girls she's having sex with are potent enough to get her pregnant anyway