oh my god noooooooooo ;;e;;
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no i swear the non-non-binary ppl have to get over the "haha you gay but also you enby haha" thing. sometimes cis lesbian ppl do it too and im like wtf happened with the mspec thing you know?
also snowflake or not, irl ppl die with that shit. holy fuck.

or multiple partnerS. like why is this.
also the "well youre dating with sm1 whos not nonbinary so you have to be just a hetero girl or a gay girl" thing doesnt make any fuckin sense. like do we prove our enby identity by having enby partners exclusively what kinda bullshit is that.

as in, this is such an unnecessary trade.
i dont have to give up my gender to check in with my uterus tumor.
no one has to give up their biromantic/panromantic identity, aro/ace identity etc., to have a partner.

but she unapologetically says "so it got fixed" about my gender lmao
uugggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
like i thought shed be like idk more fake-nice about it at the very least????????????????????? sigh whatever. i knew she doesnt believe me

thank god that i rly rly am in a better mental state i can rly laugh AND be angry tho, as in im not too depressed/sad (cuz then i have to push myself harder to even be angry, it takes so much energy.)

well it feels lesbophobic cuz its tied to "a boy" implying some romantic smths there but its plain just misogyny in general, the women should smile a lot like, i dont feel like a woman not because of the frequency i smile or whatever. or am i taking her logic wrong. im confused LMAO

😭🫂🫂🫂

also the happier softer kinder thing sounds a lot like some lesbophobic misogyny thing, like "oh you got the right man and you became less HYSTERIC congrats" kinda thing🙄 idk i have tons of questions lmao
what i give her is i am very happy recently tho
idk. Non-depressed enby ppl exist, or smth, ig.

its stupid anyways.
also i dont rly get her logic "oh masons happy and SHE got softer→ IT MUST BE A BF" like i started exercising a couple month ago, and also maybe it can be a friend or two but why default to romantic and also why assume their gender and also why assume it "fixes"my gender
??????

she was like "so you got over *the phase* right you are dating with a boy i assume"
im very concerned for my enby friends like i know they get this type of shit when they rly date with someone who is/are not sharing their AGAB esp
i guess its like monoamory is the norm and cuz its 2ppl its binary(?)

it sounds made up but i swear it just happened right after the delicious dinner im so ruined lmao why

Ohhh that explains tysm!!
so it’s happening not only in Japan huh

(Also I can’t open twitter for some reason too but this doesn’t matter)
I mean I will go to sleep and try the next morning ig???

Why they always always always frame it around “me the good guy and that creep (I’m good in comparison yay)” when it should be about the horrible experiences of the victims. It should be about the victims. +What they have to say.
This is why censorship for fictions (literally victimless) is a BS btw.

The “Ew Gross” isn’t a moral compass but surprising amount of ppl try to act like it is, even when they’re aware of social construction theories/ importance of unlearning (/rethinking of the things our society deems “normal”)
Also “ew gross! I’m not like them! Thus I’m good” isn’t even the point.

Even when they accuse child SA it’s more like “ew gross disgusting I’m not like them I’m so normal yay because I don’t feel horny for them (I scream at them to punish them when they don’t behave tho haha)” than “holy shit the poor kid oh my god” and it fuckin disappoints me so fuckin bad.