The Mindful Mama
mindfulmama.bsky.social
The Mindful Mama
@mindfulmama.bsky.social
Child development, psychology and psychotherapy student, gentle parent, and home educator. Neurodivergent. DV survivor. She/her.
Good job you don't write the laws then. I'm in the UK, where home education looks very different to 'homeschooling' in America.

As you're not interested in actually learning anything about effective home ed, I'll leave it there.

Have a good day.
December 8, 2024 at 3:01 PM
I'm obviously going to disagree with you because I home educate one of my children.
December 8, 2024 at 2:56 PM
The problem is that unschooling has become synonymous with educational neglect.

Actual unschooling was never meant to be this, it was about following the child's lead and providing opportunities for them to learn naturally away from a desk.

The concept has become completely twisted.
December 8, 2024 at 2:19 PM
We've taken the day off today but will probably squeeze some maths and english in after dinner. What kind of Halloween crafts are you doing?
November 15, 2024 at 5:21 PM
The thing that cemented the change of how I use social media when it concerns my child, was reading one of Sarah Ockwell-Smith's books.

If you won't listen to me, an anonymous stranger, please read 'Because I Said So'. There's a whole section on digital privacy for children.
October 29, 2024 at 10:35 AM
It should be up to every individual to decide what information they share publicly.

Children are not exempt from the right to privacy, and their photographs and private moments are not property of parents.

We should be mindful of the digital footprint we might create on their behalf.
October 29, 2024 at 10:29 AM
It took me until my son was eight, and my partner's daughter came into my life, to make the huge change in how I post about them online.

Because everybody should be in control of their digital footprint and privacy, even children.
October 29, 2024 at 10:28 AM
There was, of course, plenty of mumshaming involved. Everything I did as a parent was wrong, even though I follow evidence based gentle parenting.

But more than that, I started thinking about how that information can (and did) find its way off my social media.
October 29, 2024 at 10:26 AM
On top of this, I think it's dangerous when schools have say, a twitter account or a tiktok and post the children.

You have no way to know what type of users are viewing photographs of these children, and there is sadly a lot of nefarious users of both sites.
October 29, 2024 at 10:22 AM
I hear that!

It's difficult to balance everyone's needs including their need for more independence as they get older... and the parent's need for time out 😂
October 27, 2024 at 12:40 PM
Oh that sounds ideal!

My son goes to forest school every week for 3.5 hours which is ND friendly and that's the longest break I get 😅

I'm only a part time bonus mama to my partner's daughter and she attends school, but she's gone with him to forest school in her half term recently & loved it too.
October 27, 2024 at 12:29 PM
So lovely to connect with you!

My son is about to turn 9 and has been almost exclusively home educated (except for a brief unsuccessful stint at school in year two).

I'm AuDHD and so is he. 🥰
October 27, 2024 at 12:17 PM
I'm genuinely concerned about how the prevalence of AI will also lead to more misinformation, and how ill-equipped our children might be to assess the validity of information in general.

So many adults cannot seem to evaluate information or its source, so how will they teach our children to do so?
October 27, 2024 at 12:00 PM