Anyways I'm venting to non-existent followers so here's #jayvik that started the convo and #nagireo that are a hot topic with my beloved sis and came to my mind

If you're allowed to sexualize lesbians and women in general (you didn't ask for permission really), then don't get all defensive when women do the same about men. I think you lost that privilege, boy.

And what if I tell you that I'm way more intrigued by all the romantic hints I see from my pov over this? Way more than the sexual appeal those ships have. Which is also a thing: boys allow themselves to sexualize women (even more specifically lesbians), but get all defensive when women do the same.

As well as "you women, when you see two guys you immediately think about them having sex".
Why is this the first thing that comes to your mind when I speak about a gay ship? Because this is how you view women? Because lesbians are ok because it's hot for you but two boys kissing disgust you?

The problem is the disrespectful, defensive attitude that comes with these people hearing about those ships.
"They are just bros. You wouldn't understand because you're a woman."
And this makes me so angry. Because this invalidates the way I think. Because I am a woman.