@miasmay.bsky.social
My mom's health issues mean that she has to come home before Christmas & stay probably until at least the end of January, until she can get the doctor & possibly the oncologist to say she's fine; she's pretty heartbroken about it, but my Christmas season suddenly became a lot fuller
December 19, 2025 at 11:05 PM
My mom's health issues mean that she has to come home before Christmas & stay probably until at least the end of January, until she can get the doctor & possibly the oncologist to say she's fine; she's pretty heartbroken about it, but my Christmas season suddenly became a lot fuller
My mom called this morning
Mom: I didn't call earlier this week because I was in the hospital
Me: ...
Mom: I have walking pneumonia
Me: ...
Mom: and some heart failure
Me: !?!?!!!
Mom: but I'm okay now, just on my way to square dancing
Me: ...shouldn't you be resting?
My dad, beside her: RIGHT???
Mom: I didn't call earlier this week because I was in the hospital
Me: ...
Mom: I have walking pneumonia
Me: ...
Mom: and some heart failure
Me: !?!?!!!
Mom: but I'm okay now, just on my way to square dancing
Me: ...shouldn't you be resting?
My dad, beside her: RIGHT???
December 14, 2025 at 7:36 AM
My mom called this morning
Mom: I didn't call earlier this week because I was in the hospital
Me: ...
Mom: I have walking pneumonia
Me: ...
Mom: and some heart failure
Me: !?!?!!!
Mom: but I'm okay now, just on my way to square dancing
Me: ...shouldn't you be resting?
My dad, beside her: RIGHT???
Mom: I didn't call earlier this week because I was in the hospital
Me: ...
Mom: I have walking pneumonia
Me: ...
Mom: and some heart failure
Me: !?!?!!!
Mom: but I'm okay now, just on my way to square dancing
Me: ...shouldn't you be resting?
My dad, beside her: RIGHT???
Look, co-star, why you gotta come at me like that
December 5, 2025 at 7:30 AM
Look, co-star, why you gotta come at me like that
The divorce judgment has been signed as of November 24th and will take effect 31 days from signing, which takes us to... December 25th. That's a hell of a thing.
But hey, I will be fully divorced before the new year. Onward and upward.
But hey, I will be fully divorced before the new year. Onward and upward.
December 2, 2025 at 2:16 AM
The divorce judgment has been signed as of November 24th and will take effect 31 days from signing, which takes us to... December 25th. That's a hell of a thing.
But hey, I will be fully divorced before the new year. Onward and upward.
But hey, I will be fully divorced before the new year. Onward and upward.
It was a year ago today that she sent me an email saying she wasn't coming back, that she wanted a divorce, and it feels like forever, like another life I can't even imagine now, which I suppose is for the best.
November 27, 2025 at 6:51 AM
It was a year ago today that she sent me an email saying she wasn't coming back, that she wanted a divorce, and it feels like forever, like another life I can't even imagine now, which I suppose is for the best.
Slow down, co-star, you're on crack
November 23, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Slow down, co-star, you're on crack
No thanks, co-star, under-thinking what might go wrong is what got me into this mess in the first place
November 21, 2025 at 3:58 PM
No thanks, co-star, under-thinking what might go wrong is what got me into this mess in the first place
I feel like "Ladies, this is great news!" Is a very odd way for a lawyer to start an email about the divorce papers being filed by the clerk of the court (finally)
...sure it's good to hear, after all the muck-ups, but 'great news'?
...sure it's good to hear, after all the muck-ups, but 'great news'?
November 14, 2025 at 11:31 PM
I feel like "Ladies, this is great news!" Is a very odd way for a lawyer to start an email about the divorce papers being filed by the clerk of the court (finally)
...sure it's good to hear, after all the muck-ups, but 'great news'?
...sure it's good to hear, after all the muck-ups, but 'great news'?
I didn't expect to find an ex-coworker at the Witches Walk, but here we are; I kind of recognized him but I assumed it was from Suburbs, not BW. He recognized me, though, so we talked shop for a bit
October 25, 2025 at 3:56 AM
I didn't expect to find an ex-coworker at the Witches Walk, but here we are; I kind of recognized him but I assumed it was from Suburbs, not BW. He recognized me, though, so we talked shop for a bit
I had my follow-up appointment with the surgeon. All is well but he was sure distressed to learn that the painkillers didn't work, nor did the drug they gave me to forget what happened during the procedure, it's all excruciatingly clear
October 23, 2025 at 8:43 PM
I had my follow-up appointment with the surgeon. All is well but he was sure distressed to learn that the painkillers didn't work, nor did the drug they gave me to forget what happened during the procedure, it's all excruciatingly clear
Also I applied for a job this week that I want more than any other job I've ever wanted, send good vibes please
October 8, 2025 at 11:10 PM
Also I applied for a job this week that I want more than any other job I've ever wanted, send good vibes please
Someone I did some freelance work for last month offered me a couple more projects! Particularly thrilling because he said before the first project that he was anxious because he didn't enjoy working with editors usually (except @mmrilla.bsky.social, obvs, 'cause she's the bomb)
October 8, 2025 at 11:03 PM
Someone I did some freelance work for last month offered me a couple more projects! Particularly thrilling because he said before the first project that he was anxious because he didn't enjoy working with editors usually (except @mmrilla.bsky.social, obvs, 'cause she's the bomb)
Ahahaha not bloody likely, co-star
October 4, 2025 at 7:06 AM
Ahahaha not bloody likely, co-star
I've somehow managed to lose all my pandemic weight in one month but my clothes still don't really fit right so maybe it's just that I'm STILL BLEEDING FROM SURGERY
...can you lose ten pounds of just blood?
...can you lose ten pounds of just blood?
October 3, 2025 at 8:18 PM
I've somehow managed to lose all my pandemic weight in one month but my clothes still don't really fit right so maybe it's just that I'm STILL BLEEDING FROM SURGERY
...can you lose ten pounds of just blood?
...can you lose ten pounds of just blood?
Why why why am I having so much bleeding and cramping literally 8 days after the procedure? This is the worst it's been since last Monday
a woman is sitting at a table with a glass of water and says it hurts
Alt: a woman is sitting at a table with a glass of water and says "it hurts. I feel like I've laid a million eggs and they're all hatching"
media.tenor.com
September 17, 2025 at 12:49 AM
Why why why am I having so much bleeding and cramping literally 8 days after the procedure? This is the worst it's been since last Monday
Harsh but fair, Costar
September 15, 2025 at 6:58 AM
Harsh but fair, Costar
It's 'officially separated for over a year' day today, time to get all my documents notarized
September 4, 2025 at 4:30 PM
It's 'officially separated for over a year' day today, time to get all my documents notarized
It was my wedding anniversary today, I guess
August 3, 2025 at 7:05 AM
It was my wedding anniversary today, I guess
I want a new tattoo but haven't decided on the art style yet.
July 27, 2025 at 11:58 PM
I want a new tattoo but haven't decided on the art style yet.
Bought tickets to fly out to Halifax to visit with @helihex.bsky.social (and see the beautiful east coast fall foliage) over my birthday week, because why not?
(Cindy, with whom I usually spend my birthday, will be away at a super cool conference in England! Yay Cindy!)
(Cindy, with whom I usually spend my birthday, will be away at a super cool conference in England! Yay Cindy!)
July 14, 2025 at 6:23 PM
Bought tickets to fly out to Halifax to visit with @helihex.bsky.social (and see the beautiful east coast fall foliage) over my birthday week, because why not?
(Cindy, with whom I usually spend my birthday, will be away at a super cool conference in England! Yay Cindy!)
(Cindy, with whom I usually spend my birthday, will be away at a super cool conference in England! Yay Cindy!)
I paid off the last of my marriage/divorce debt today and then spent a large amount of time weeping on the couch, these two things may be related or maybe it's just sleep deprivation and a full moon, who can say
July 10, 2025 at 3:52 AM
I paid off the last of my marriage/divorce debt today and then spent a large amount of time weeping on the couch, these two things may be related or maybe it's just sleep deprivation and a full moon, who can say
Dear subconscious: please just no, I do not need to dream about her, can we not? It was very stressful, even in a dream.
July 4, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Dear subconscious: please just no, I do not need to dream about her, can we not? It was very stressful, even in a dream.
Harsh but fair, Co-star
July 3, 2025 at 6:50 AM
Harsh but fair, Co-star