I am the other way around myself. Have owned a pick since i started but definitely like to mix in finger styles alot more than i used to

Exactly. Like i understand its just what he does and alot of times i dont begrudge him for it generally but sometimes i gotta focus on something and he wont stop. Or i just need some quiet time and cant get it. That sort of thing

Im not saying it is all together bad for someone to do that but i end up being forced into his thoughts so much throughout the day every day that i cant hear my own thoughts