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Years of Family Pain due to conflict led me to search the Word of God for answers that no one else could give me. What I found set me free.
Born out of that pain I have created something for people just like me:

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When Forgiveness Isn’t Enough: How to Set Boundaries Without Betraying Your Faith
✝️ When Forgiveness Isn’t EnoughHow to Set Biblical Boundaries Without Betraying Your Faith“Just forgive and move on.”“God forgave you, so you have to forgive them.”“Honor your parents. No exceptions....
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January 1, 2026 at 2:16 AM
Want a verse to stand on?

📖 Romans 12:18

“If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

➤ That means peace is the goal, not the god.

You can seek peace and still walk away from chaos. That’s not rebellion — it’s wisdom.

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When Forgiveness Isn’t Enough: How to Set Boundaries Without Betraying Your Faith
✝️ When Forgiveness Isn’t EnoughHow to Set Biblical Boundaries Without Betraying Your Faith“Just forgive and move on.”“God forgave you, so you have to forgive them.”“Honor your parents. No exceptions....
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
January 1, 2026 at 2:03 AM
You don’t have to yell.
You don’t have to argue.

But you do have to protect your peace — even when it hurts.

And if the people who hurt you the most are quoting verses to keep control?

That’s exactly when truth matters most.
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When Forgiveness Isn’t Enough: How to Set Boundaries Without Betraying Your Faith
✝️ When Forgiveness Isn’t EnoughHow to Set Biblical Boundaries Without Betraying Your Faith“Just forgive and move on.”“God forgave you, so you have to forgive them.”“Honor your parents. No exceptions....
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
January 1, 2026 at 2:01 AM
The Forgiveness Trap - $7

What you get:
✅ The 3 lies crushing you (exposed)
✅ The Joseph Model (biblical proof)
✅ True vs. False Forgiveness (clarity)
✅ 3 Boundary Scripts (word-for-word)
✅ 17 pages. Instant download.

Less than a coffee:
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December 27, 2025 at 7:01 PM
"The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty." - Proverbs 22:3

God expects you to be wise about protecting yourself.

That includes from toxic family members.
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 27, 2025 at 3:00 AM
The Forgiveness Trap - $7

What you get:
✅ The 3 lies crushing you (exposed)
✅ The Joseph Model (biblical proof)
✅ True vs. False Forgiveness (clarity)
✅ 3 Boundary Scripts (word-for-word)
✅ 17 pages. Instant download.

Less than a coffee:
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 26, 2025 at 7:30 PM
"The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty." - Proverbs 22:3

God expects you to be wise about protecting yourself.

That includes from toxic family members.

mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 26, 2025 at 3:01 PM
"The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty." - Proverbs 22:3

God expects you to be wise about protecting yourself.

That includes from toxic family members.

mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 26, 2025 at 3:20 AM
Real talk:

Have you ever been told you're being "unforgiving" because you won't return to a toxic family situation?

That's manipulation, not biblical truth.

Let me show you what the Bible actually says:
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 25, 2025 at 7:00 PM
Mark 3:21 - Jesus' own family thought He was "out of His mind."

They came to take charge of Him.
They misunderstood His mission.
They wanted Him to stop disrupting their lives.

If Jesus was misunderstood by family, you will be too.

mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 25, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Things that cost more than The Forgiveness Trap:

- One therapy co-pay ($30-50)
- Lunch at Chipotle ($12)
- A Christian book that doesn't address your situation ($18)
- The emotional cost of one more family gathering (priceless)

Get biblical clarity for $7:
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 24, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Mark 3:21 - Jesus' own family thought He was "out of His mind."

They came to take charge of Him.
They misunderstood His mission.
They wanted Him to stop disrupting their lives.

If Jesus was misunderstood by family, you will be too.
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 24, 2025 at 3:00 PM
Mark 3:21 - Jesus' own family thought He was "out of His mind."

They came to take charge of Him.
They misunderstood His mission.
They wanted Him to stop disrupting their lives.

If Jesus was misunderstood by family, you will be too.
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 24, 2025 at 3:00 PM
I know... you can't take another Christmas dinner.
Tired of being told "You just need to forgive"
Tired of being told "You're supposed to be a Christian"
Tired of being expected to sweep abusive treatment under the rug.
I was once there too.
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 23, 2025 at 6:06 PM
The boundary script you need:

"Mom, I love you, but I'm not going to discuss my marriage with you anymore. If you bring it up, I'll need to end the conversation."

That's not unforgiveness. That's wisdom.

Get all 3 scripts:
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 23, 2025 at 1:20 AM
Joseph forgave his brothers.

But he didn't immediately reconcile with them.
He tested them first.
He protected himself.
He was wise.

Forgiveness ≠ Reconciliation

The Bible proves it:
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 22, 2025 at 3:01 PM
The boundary script you need:

"Mom, I love you, but I'm not going to discuss my marriage with you anymore. If you bring it up, I'll need to end the conversation."

That's not unforgiveness. That's wisdom.

Get all 3 scripts:
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 22, 2025 at 2:56 PM
Joseph forgave his brothers.

But he didn't immediately reconcile with them.
He tested them first.
He protected himself.
He was wise.

Forgiveness ≠ Reconciliation

The Bible proves it:
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 22, 2025 at 2:54 PM
What you'll learn in The Forgiveness Trap:

Why "forgiveness = reconciliation" is FALSE
Why "boundaries = unforgiveness" is MANIPULATION
Why "honor parents = obey them" is UNBIBLICAL

Plus: Word-for-word boundary scripts.

$7. Instant download:
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 21, 2025 at 7:36 PM
What you'll learn in The Forgiveness Trap:

Why "forgiveness = reconciliation" is FALSE
Why "boundaries = unforgiveness" is MANIPULATION
Why "honor parents = obey them" is UNBIBLICAL

Plus: Word-for-word boundary scripts.

$7. Instant download:
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 21, 2025 at 7:00 PM
Joseph forgave his brothers.

But he didn't immediately reconcile with them.
He tested them first.
He protected himself.
He was wise.

Forgiveness ≠ Reconciliation

The Bible proves it:
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 21, 2025 at 3:02 PM
What you'll learn in The Forgiveness Trap:

Why "forgiveness = reconciliation" is FALSE
Why "boundaries = unforgiveness" is MANIPULATION
Why "honor parents = obey them" is UNBIBLICAL

Plus: Word-for-word boundary scripts.

$7. Instant download:
The Forgiveness Trap - How to Break Free From Toxic Family Demands without Losing Your Faith
The Question That Changes Everything:What if the crushing guilt you feel isn't from God at all? What if forgiveness doesn't mean what your family told you it means? What if you can honor your parents…
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com
December 20, 2025 at 11:45 PM
What you'll learn in The Forgiveness Trap:

Why "forgiveness = reconciliation" is FALSE
Why "boundaries = unforgiveness" is MANIPULATION
Why "honor parents = obey them" is UNBIBLICAL

Plus: Word-for-word boundary scripts.

$7. Instant download:
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 20, 2025 at 7:30 PM
Things that cost more than The Forgiveness Trap:

- One therapy co-pay ($30-50)
- Lunch at Chipotle ($12)
- A Christian book that doesn't address your situation ($18)
- The emotional cost of one more family gathering (priceless)

Get biblical clarity for $7:
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 20, 2025 at 7:00 PM
"We must obey God rather than human beings." - Acts 5:29

Peter said this to RELIGIOUS AUTHORITIES.

You can say it to your family.

It's not disrespect. It's obedience.

The Forgiveness Trap - $7:
mexmarkaz.gumroad.com/l/the-forgiv...
December 20, 2025 at 5:46 PM