May I ask the name of this Overcat, One Who Rules Your Life More or Less Benevolently?

I kept meaning to click the link you sent me - but that's a computer action, and bluesky is on my phone. And I kept getting distracted.
Thank you for finding me!

there's a reason building trust and empathy is considered an essential first step in getting someone out of a cult, and not mockery and derision: the latter just drives them further into the cult because they feel like no one else will ever accept them.

I said I think I remember that film...