MentorDadSir
@mentordadsir.bsky.social
50+ married 🏳️🌈 guy into leather, cigars, and uniforms (less so given current events). Sometimes political. Don't follow if you wouldn't be comfortable at a leather bar, a pride parade, or a cigar lounge.
Black lives matter. Trans lives matter. Be kind.
Black lives matter. Trans lives matter. Be kind.
About to engage in some impromptu Friday night fisting.
November 22, 2025 at 2:14 AM
About to engage in some impromptu Friday night fisting.
Yet again I am reminded that this album kicks all the ass.
November 21, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Yet again I am reminded that this album kicks all the ass.
Stay classy, Don. 🙄
November 19, 2025 at 3:55 AM
Stay classy, Don. 🙄
So many panicked fundraising pleas from Lois Frankel. She sounds like someone texting from the trunk of a car being driven into the Everglades at 3:21 AM. . . #ReportJunk
November 11, 2025 at 9:47 PM
So many panicked fundraising pleas from Lois Frankel. She sounds like someone texting from the trunk of a car being driven into the Everglades at 3:21 AM. . . #ReportJunk
It’s cold enough for full leather in south Florida on this #MuirCapMonday, and I couldn’t be happier.
November 11, 2025 at 3:56 AM
It’s cold enough for full leather in south Florida on this #MuirCapMonday, and I couldn’t be happier.
Sigh. Back to work tomorrow.
November 10, 2025 at 2:27 AM
Sigh. Back to work tomorrow.
Relaxing after making a deposit with the boy’s sperm bank.
November 8, 2025 at 11:57 PM
Relaxing after making a deposit with the boy’s sperm bank.
#FatCageFriday Saving myself up for a session with my boy this weekend. This time I’ve been sleeping in it, which is unusual for me, and it hasn’t been as bad as I remember.
November 7, 2025 at 7:31 PM
#FatCageFriday Saving myself up for a session with my boy this weekend. This time I’ve been sleeping in it, which is unusual for me, and it hasn’t been as bad as I remember.
In case 80’s revivalism is your jam, The Protomen are FINALLY releasing a sequel to their masterpiece _Act II: The Father of Death_. The first 8 tracks of _Act III: This City Made Us_ are on Bandcamp. It’s been a long wait.
November 1, 2025 at 1:29 AM
In case 80’s revivalism is your jam, The Protomen are FINALLY releasing a sequel to their masterpiece _Act II: The Father of Death_. The first 8 tracks of _Act III: This City Made Us_ are on Bandcamp. It’s been a long wait.
Sound on. Part 2 to yesterday’s video. I made this for a specific boy (who said he appreciated it).
October 30, 2025 at 4:48 PM
Sound on. Part 2 to yesterday’s video. I made this for a specific boy (who said he appreciated it).
Posting this for all the straight ladies who followed me recently. I’m a kinky gay leather cigar dude. These are not the droids you seek.
October 29, 2025 at 3:58 PM
Posting this for all the straight ladies who followed me recently. I’m a kinky gay leather cigar dude. These are not the droids you seek.
Okay, let’s get through the afternoon.
October 28, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Okay, let’s get through the afternoon.
Loving the latest Hit Parade podcast about Sting. What can I say? I’m terminally 80’s.
October 20, 2025 at 1:13 AM
Loving the latest Hit Parade podcast about Sting. What can I say? I’m terminally 80’s.
Lady says, “Disappoint me less.” 😆
October 19, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Lady says, “Disappoint me less.” 😆
Watched this Tuesday on the flight to Salt Lake. Near total misfire. Scrubbing the hero’s queer-coding — as is rumored — truly made for a movie about nothing. With generous use of Carl Sagan’s voice, this should have reduced me to tears. Instead? Meh.
October 17, 2025 at 2:25 AM
Watched this Tuesday on the flight to Salt Lake. Near total misfire. Scrubbing the hero’s queer-coding — as is rumored — truly made for a movie about nothing. With generous use of Carl Sagan’s voice, this should have reduced me to tears. Instead? Meh.
This is how I relax around the house. 🤪 📸 by @roughian70.bsky.social back in 2022.
October 16, 2025 at 3:03 AM
This is how I relax around the house. 🤪 📸 by @roughian70.bsky.social back in 2022.
I don’t WANT to go back to Salt Lake City! 😫😫😫
October 14, 2025 at 9:24 PM
I don’t WANT to go back to Salt Lake City! 😫😫😫
Memories of Portland.
October 14, 2025 at 3:51 PM
Memories of Portland.
Documentary on Wax Trax records. I never knew the story behind it, the record store and label started by a gay couple. Ah, the music of my college years. Beers! Steers! And queers!
October 13, 2025 at 2:57 AM
Documentary on Wax Trax records. I never knew the story behind it, the record store and label started by a gay couple. Ah, the music of my college years. Beers! Steers! And queers!