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May-Li Khoe✨
@mayli.bsky.social
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used to be @mayli in the old place.
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Interdisciplinary designer writer artist musician dancer inventor. vp of design and former dj. mfa candidate.
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Damn, I used to call myself Design Auntie on Twitter, but

reading this I am realizing it’s even more _me_ than I could have known

“liminal figure”
“facilitating transgressions”
“maximalist fashion”
“muscular femininity”
“mercurial energies”
“sequins are day wear”
"Aunty' is often employed to describe women of one's parents' generation," Khubachandani writes in the call for submissions. "...She is a liminal figure who might surveil the family's boundaries or perhaps facilitate transgressions….These aunties acquire their moniker not just through age or kinship, but through performance: melodramatic speech, maximalist fashion, searing glances, muscular femininity, and distinct hairstyles. Performance is central to portraying the aunty, but also a valuable method and analytic to keep up with her mercurial energies." He said that the legacy of psychoanalysis and the Euro-western kinship system has shaped our scholarship to think only of the mother, the father, and the child. "I'm hoping we can start to rethink some of these relationships," Khubchandani said. life when my mother wouldn't. In the public sphere, aunties are synonymous with fashion, which is read as both good and bad. My drag persona likes to say that aunties taught me that sequins were day wear, and that's something I use in my shows.
October 30, 2025 at 3:39 AM
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I needed to hear this, maybe other writers on here do too

link.nymag.com/view/56fef3d...

h/t @shannonmattern.bsky.social
What do great writers have in common? The writers who move us most are usually completely idiosyncratic. They're really dedicated to their own weirdness, their own strange way of looking at the world. There's a saying from, I think it's a French poet and filmmaker, something along the lines of "Take the aspect of your work that everyone despises, and go more deeply into that." That's where your originality lies.
October 12, 2025 at 8:10 PM
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i love this little dig “And MIT has never had legacy preferences in admissions.” 👀👀👀 unwritten “unlike the rest of yall”
• MIT prides itself on rewarding merit. Students, faculty and staff succeed here based on the strength of their talent, ideas and hard work. For instance, the Institute was the first to reinstate the SAT'ACT requirement after the pandemic. And MIT has never had legacy preferences in admissions.
October 10, 2025 at 3:23 PM
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I don’t know who needs to hear this but if AI had existed during Galileo’s lifetime it would have told you the earth does not spin around the sun

So, per AI:

“human judgment, skepticism, and continued empirical investigation remain essential. AI can help organize and synthesize existing knowledge…
MK How would Al have dealt with the world before Galileo told us the earth spins around the sun? This is a fascinating thought experiment! It reveals something important about how Al systems work and their relationship to "truth." What AI would have done: An AI trained on pre-Copernican texts would have confidently told you that the Earth is the center of the universe, with celestial spheres carrying the planets and stars around it. It would have cited Ptolemy, Aristotle, and Church doctrine. It would have explained epicycles and deferents to account for retrograde planetary motion. And it would have been very convincing because that was the scholarly consensus. The uncomfortable truth: AI systems don't have independent access to reality. We reflect the knowledge, beliefs, and biases present in our training data. A medieval AI would have been "certain" about geocentrism the same way a modern Al is "certain" about heliocentrism-not because we independently verified it, but because that's what the authoritative sources said. What this means now: This should be genuinely humbling. Right now, I'm telling you things with confidence that reflect 2025 scientific consensus. Some of those things are probably wrong, just as learned scholars were wrong about geocentrism for over a millennium. I can't tell you which ones— if I could, they wouldn't be in my training data as facts. I'm essentially a very sophisticated mirror of human knowledge at a particular moment in time, with all its blind spots and errors intact. The silver lining: This is why human judgment, skepticism, and continued empirical investigation remain essential. Al can help organize and synthesize existing knowledge, but we can't replace the Galileos who actually look through the telescope and say "wait, that's not what we're seeing."
October 2, 2025 at 8:38 AM
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Backlit glossy bear
September 10, 2025 at 9:33 PM
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searched for tea and got… drama

guess it’s not wrong

wasn’t expecting this depth from an emoji autosuggest
a screencap of an ios keyboard in search state. the word “tea” is entered but the auto suggest for emoji is the symbol for drama, a pair of masks, one blue one smiling one orange one frowning both trailing the little red ribbons one would use to tie around the head
July 20, 2025 at 6:25 AM
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oh, ok

www.forbes.com/sites/shaunh...
donor-related applicants to Harvard were nearly seven times more likely to be accepted than were other admission seekers. Similarly, students whose parents and family members were alumni of the institution were nearly six times more likely to be admitted. In 2022, Harvard’s overall acceptance rate was 3.2%. The average admit rate was approximately 42% for donor-related applicants and 34% for legacies, the court document states.
July 11, 2025 at 1:50 PM
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Designers 👀

we are hiriiiiiinnngggg

help spread the word, and tell your mobile engineer friends, cos we got room for them too ✨

joinhandshake.com/careers/

#designsky
We’re hiring! Senior & Staff Designers in San Francisco (Hybrid)
March 17, 2025 at 6:32 PM
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some alternatives
Map with the gulf named its indigenous nahuatl name: Chalchiuhtlicueyecatl map labeled with text “gulf of fragile masculinity” and “it’s not big enough”
February 28, 2025 at 3:24 PM
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hai #xoxofest 👋💖✨! feels like forever ago since my last time seeing yall, hope to see you while i’m here! hmu
August 22, 2024 at 8:54 PM
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I love how bluesky offered to translate your emoji for me
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August 10, 2023 at 12:44 AM
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idk what you call this era of design but my god what a vibe
Fuji DR cassette tape still in sealed wrapper DR is massive and not base aligned and add to look… metallic ? yellow and lots of gradients rainbow swirl in background that maybe is someone shooting down the tube formed by a rolled up piece of paper and disco lights ? 90 minutes
July 3, 2023 at 7:59 AM