Who’s Lila. My jaw dropped every five minutes when I originally played it and I wish I could experience it all again blind

now we're even more inclusive yaaaay, just had to get over some very deeply rooted insecurities about most likely not being one person

We don't gain anything as a community from locking away the language that communicates the very base experience of being plural. That wasn't cool of me to participate in. Thank you for your patience, and for sharing so much with me!

I think part of why i had such an issue with it to begin with, is partly about my own journey of discovering my own system. Its a scary experience on its own, and i wished to be able to speak about it and connect with people over it online while poking as few bears as possible.

Hey thank you so much for the response thread! Wow, i didn't expect this much, tysm. Sry for the long wait . I have since taken a look at my relation with the word "system" and have chosen to be less exclusionary in my opinions about its use.

i was under the impression that "system" not only refers to being plural, but specifically refers to disordered plurality that includes amnesia barriers? In any case, i would never actively stop someone from using the term, as i don't know what goes on in their head.

i wasn't aware of this. i do find plural conversations a little hard to navigate, bc it seems most info i've found so far is claimed as misinfo by someone. do you have a source you generally consider trustworthy i could check out? (it's alright if not sdj)

i have some gut feelings about medicalised words that i cant quite put into words just now, but you bring up interesting points i'll have to go think about for a bit ^^
I'm not sure i'll agree, but we'll see

i personally prefer union or collective to avoid that kind of confusion (despite being at least slightly disordered, im just very early in my discovery of my union, i think it's 2,5 months at this point)

thats a fair view on it. I have heard a lot of disordered systems be confused about some non-disordered plurals usage of the term, because it to them has an extra connotation of including the dissociation, communication issues, and other potential symptoms.

im so not used to the bluesky/twitter interface that i instead of continuing this chain made a qoute repost asdjlaskjd