3. ‘Gay allowance’ is real. Queer men may be “allowed” to be feminine—but only in ways that fit stereotypes, reinforcing inequality.

2. Privilege changes the rules. Straight, white, or more “masculine” men often get a pass, while others face harsher policing.

That sparkly purple eyeshadow 🤩

so true. the only wax strong enough for my mustache is called "death grip wax" with a skull on the front. good grief.

ugh, what ridiculousness. Sorry that happened :/

Thank you for that ❤️

This is SO great! Definitely writing this into the syllabus I'm working on right now. Thank you for sharing! This kind of pedagogy/research improvement is exactly what I was interesting in getting from acaedmic social media :)

Agreed! I’d love to hear the specifics :)

Wha??!

That’s hilarious! I really love when authors boldly make narrow reference that lands

Uh oh! No love for wolf hall? I read that series this year and was completely amazed!!