I am such a beautiful idiot

In both cases, the path can be frustrating, with obstacles like limited options, restrictions, or people trying to gatekeep what’s available. Yet, when you find the right place—a spot where you feel secure or a care plan that supports your authenticity—the relief/sense of alignment are undeniable.

Similarly, accessing gender-affirming care often involves navigating complex systems, advocating for yourself, and identifying providers or treatments that align with your unique identity and goals.

Both parking your car and receiving gender-affirming care revolve around finding the right fit for your needs in a system designed to serve many. Parking, whether at a busy lot or on a quiet street, requires patience, awareness, and trial and error to secure a spot that feels safe and accessible.