Yup. And culturally we want easy ‘solutions’ to complex challenges so we don’t have to do the hard emotional work of life

You’re not a weirdo. You just don’t get to say what’s helpful for those of us who search🥚

Here’s the thing tho. Even when it’s a “better life” we’re severed from every cell of our history & told to get over it #adoption

When I was searching I thought about applying for a job in the records’ department at the probate court that handled my #adoption so I could steal my own records. 🥚

As a kid I had a pet guinea pig that would stick her head in her little house & think no one could see her. This makes me think of that 🤡