I mean if the girth works…

I have a sublime hatred for when my advisors refuse to read then message me asking for information I have sent. And god help them if I’ve sent it more than once already….

And that is a careful balance. She will not step in unless she is asked to and even then she will ask how much she is allowed to “interfere”. The boundary needs to be set because otherwise it’s whatever whom suits her.

"Pushover" is not something in their name because they do know when to stand their ground. They just hope you do not choose to press the wrong buttons continuously for them to dismiss all courtesy.