I married into a wonderful Canadian family, and my child is dual. You bet your ass I know where I'm going and who I'm fighting if it comes down to it.

Hell yes

I love Steve

Then later on when I was about to go on parental leave she asked if I was going to take "the full twelve months" and I cried a little.

I remember the first time I told my Canadian sister-in-law a few details about how health insurance works down here and she just stared at me for a while and went, "wait, like car insurance?!"