Can't agree with you more. Nothing makes men happier than pleasing a woman, starting in childhood with their mother. This is where true happiness lies. In adulthood the vast majority of men are followers like in an army there are very few generals, the majority are privates.

This is a result of patriarchy but it affects the welfare of men as well. When we bring together female happyness and female leadership, this could be the most effective move forward we can achieve.