the answer is yes

Echoing everyone's sentiments here, but hoping we can offer support during this era of your life 🫂 you're a tough cookie and we are here for you ❤️

REAL

🤌🏻so traumatized from parents dating lives 🤌🏻😂

exactly, and like while we have remained friends and support systems I know there is shit I have not been made aware of during their 6 years of marriage which is fine and to be expected. I would rather we heal and explore as friends before complicating that with romantic overtones.

so update, lol, their therapist was like "you need to learn to be alone before jumping into this" and they're right so we are remaining friends for now with the knowledge that future is there

Thank you!! Obviously right now things are very up in the air but, we have agreed that we both want each other - which is lovely and scary all at once

my emotional state is all over the place today essentially

Thank you 😭 she was the family historian and always had a story to tell (and laugh about) with everyone

*too

as much as Syracuse is a depressing pit to me lol it is pretty nice, and it doesn't take to long to get out of the suburbs into more rural areas

y e s. sufjan is everything. the Carrie & Lowell album got me through some rough shit.

same, may the odds be ever in our favor 🥲

I would die for your dog; please give her my love 🥹❤️

My friend does it once a month (because it's so expensive, and that's what works for her) and it's really helped her.

probably EMDR, and if you can ketamine since in small doses it helps prescription resistant depression.

oh buddy, at least you'll be prepared for next week?? I did the same a month ago, so don't feel too bad