The main issue being the fact that they don't care about who you are as a person, to them, you're just a target, someone they CAN harrass and feel better than. Which is very unfortunate.

I think the problem is more that the community is so large, and that there is targeted harrassment towards you-

I know I personally wouldn't be offended, but there are many people who would use that as a source for more harrassment-

scuffed - a little messed up, kinda broken

poggers - exclamation, positive, very good!