It was meant as a joke and you guys couldn’t take the joke. It could’ve been said in dms, it could’ve been resolved peacefully if you guys didn’t explode it. Why must you further this issue?

They didn’t, they were just poking fun! They was no ill-intent and yet you perceive it as they were the bass ones.

I can back him up and the rest of his friends too

Guilt tripping Philly? Really? That’s the low you take

It's true right there.

They were not making her a lesser person or a bad person but she chose to blow this up and we tried to de-escalate the situation but you, Mitch, chose to continue this and you choosing to make the matters worse.

Is it really necessary to make it more and more worse just to defend her?

There was no ill intent and yet it blowed up over a conversation that it shouldn’t be a problem. I also fail to see why this have to do with it.

“You reap what you have sow.”
“You made your bed, now lie in it.”

This is the consequences of the actions that took place today

If this is your only resort to complain here, I’m sorry but it’s a loss cause to do so. They have explained to you what they trying to do and yet you refuse to see it.