Iain
@lthriain.bsky.social
Canada-based Daddy, switch, sex-positive, body positive, poly and geeky Bear into a bunch of stuff. Adult only. BLUF 1862 🇨🇦 🇬🇧 🇪🇺 🏳️🌈 Currently: 🇨🇦 - Partners with @fuzybehr and @topbearottawa
Oh, AND you missed the full text of the comments given Bluesky’s limitations.
November 14, 2025 at 10:31 PM
Oh, AND you missed the full text of the comments given Bluesky’s limitations.
The question was put out there, I chose to engage in discussion.
November 14, 2025 at 9:45 PM
The question was put out there, I chose to engage in discussion.
While I’d gladly accept a blowjob from someone on the fly, but for fucking I definitely want to take my time and show them a good time. I’m not really in for a quick fuck, I want that connection.
Absolutely nothing wrong with that and if someone else is butthurt, that’s their problem.
Absolutely nothing wrong with that and if someone else is butthurt, that’s their problem.
November 14, 2025 at 9:13 PM
While I’d gladly accept a blowjob from someone on the fly, but for fucking I definitely want to take my time and show them a good time. I’m not really in for a quick fuck, I want that connection.
Absolutely nothing wrong with that and if someone else is butthurt, that’s their problem.
Absolutely nothing wrong with that and if someone else is butthurt, that’s their problem.
Out of a situation, I realized how much on the Demi spectrum I am and how much I wasn’t satisfied with some of the play I was getting into.
Absolutely nothing wrong with setting boundaries and saying, “This is what I’ve got on offer” and “If you want this? This is what it’s going to take.”
Absolutely nothing wrong with setting boundaries and saying, “This is what I’ve got on offer” and “If you want this? This is what it’s going to take.”
November 14, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Out of a situation, I realized how much on the Demi spectrum I am and how much I wasn’t satisfied with some of the play I was getting into.
Absolutely nothing wrong with setting boundaries and saying, “This is what I’ve got on offer” and “If you want this? This is what it’s going to take.”
Absolutely nothing wrong with setting boundaries and saying, “This is what I’ve got on offer” and “If you want this? This is what it’s going to take.”
I’d actually identify more as pan as I’m actually quite open to different relationship and play experiences, but ultimately I’d say I’m more “flexible”. 🤷
November 14, 2025 at 8:55 PM
I’d actually identify more as pan as I’m actually quite open to different relationship and play experiences, but ultimately I’d say I’m more “flexible”. 🤷
I have interest in playing with cis women but not really interested in a dating relationship, and not really interested in trans women for play or dating (not out of the realm of possibility, but unlikely). While I could identify as bi, I’d consider that as I form relationships.
November 14, 2025 at 8:55 PM
I have interest in playing with cis women but not really interested in a dating relationship, and not really interested in trans women for play or dating (not out of the realm of possibility, but unlikely). While I could identify as bi, I’d consider that as I form relationships.
Interesting point. I don’t necessarily want a relationship with people of certain genders and gender expression but others I will.
For me, I definitely form relationships with cis and trans men…
For me, I definitely form relationships with cis and trans men…
November 14, 2025 at 8:55 PM
Interesting point. I don’t necessarily want a relationship with people of certain genders and gender expression but others I will.
For me, I definitely form relationships with cis and trans men…
For me, I definitely form relationships with cis and trans men…
Correction: 4 of us ;)
November 14, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Correction: 4 of us ;)
I don’t know - three of would agree at the perfection of @topbearottawa.bsky.social ‘s cock *grin*
November 14, 2025 at 7:48 PM
I don’t know - three of would agree at the perfection of @topbearottawa.bsky.social ‘s cock *grin*
