Loup Menacant
@loup-menacant.bsky.social
Closest thing to an AD that I'm going to have until locked accounts. A place to put thoughts I don't want to put on main. If you think my post is directed at you or about you, no it's not.
NSFW 18+, but don't expect any nudes.
NSFW 18+, but don't expect any nudes.
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Loup Menacant
@loup-menacant.bsky.social
· Jul 21
Anyways right now the complex thought is trying to square the feelings "demisexual-ish and kinda need to know the guy" with "fuck that guy is hot and I'd hook up with him right now if I thought he was interested"
Another day where I'm vexed by my personal combination of being sexual, being demisexual, and being full of social anxiety.
December 11, 2025 at 4:14 PM
Another day where I'm vexed by my personal combination of being sexual, being demisexual, and being full of social anxiety.
I think the one thing that would've turned the con from an B+ to an A for me would be rooming with folks that I would feel comfortable asking "hey I wanna invite a friend up here and do naked things with them".
December 9, 2025 at 8:26 PM
I think the one thing that would've turned the con from an B+ to an A for me would be rooming with folks that I would feel comfortable asking "hey I wanna invite a friend up here and do naked things with them".
Still unpacking a bit about my thoughts and feelings about how the con went. Not that it was bad in any sense, it was quite good! But just trying to get a better understanding of my wants and needs, what I look for in cons and in the experiences that I have with people.
December 9, 2025 at 8:18 PM
Still unpacking a bit about my thoughts and feelings about how the con went. Not that it was bad in any sense, it was quite good! But just trying to get a better understanding of my wants and needs, what I look for in cons and in the experiences that I have with people.
It's always amazing to me how much getting to roll around and fool around and get off with a friend is such a positive multiplier to how good my con experience is 🐺💦
December 6, 2025 at 7:28 PM
It's always amazing to me how much getting to roll around and fool around and get off with a friend is such a positive multiplier to how good my con experience is 🐺💦
Anyways I'm DEFINITELY sex-brained today 🍆🐺💦
November 21, 2025 at 10:36 PM
Anyways I'm DEFINITELY sex-brained today 🍆🐺💦
I think the number one thing that someone can do to turn me off is to act superior OR subservient to me. I like folks who treat themselves and me both respectfully.
This is why anyone calling me "sir", or referring to themselves (or me) in any demeaning way is a quick way to get me Not Interested™
This is why anyone calling me "sir", or referring to themselves (or me) in any demeaning way is a quick way to get me Not Interested™
November 21, 2025 at 6:49 PM
I think the number one thing that someone can do to turn me off is to act superior OR subservient to me. I like folks who treat themselves and me both respectfully.
This is why anyone calling me "sir", or referring to themselves (or me) in any demeaning way is a quick way to get me Not Interested™
This is why anyone calling me "sir", or referring to themselves (or me) in any demeaning way is a quick way to get me Not Interested™
I consider myself a switch in theory but I'm a top in practice, mostly because the sort of folks I tend to click with don't tend to care for topping (and the sort of folks that actively like topping are folks I tend not to click with)
November 21, 2025 at 6:36 PM
I consider myself a switch in theory but I'm a top in practice, mostly because the sort of folks I tend to click with don't tend to care for topping (and the sort of folks that actively like topping are folks I tend not to click with)
Another day where I wish I had a local casual FWB I could just hang out with and fool around whenevs 🐺💦
November 21, 2025 at 6:22 PM
Another day where I wish I had a local casual FWB I could just hang out with and fool around whenevs 🐺💦
So far my outfit today has been:
- Slippers
- Slippers
November 16, 2025 at 8:28 PM
So far my outfit today has been:
- Slippers
- Slippers
Kinda wish I was more mentally wired to do random hookups, because I definitely feel the physical wiring of the NEED for more fucking 🐺💦
November 12, 2025 at 5:52 PM
Kinda wish I was more mentally wired to do random hookups, because I definitely feel the physical wiring of the NEED for more fucking 🐺💦
One of those days I miss having local FWBs nearby 🐺
November 12, 2025 at 5:34 PM
One of those days I miss having local FWBs nearby 🐺
My "I need to top NOW" gauge is currently at 110% 🐺🔝
October 17, 2025 at 9:34 PM
My "I need to top NOW" gauge is currently at 110% 🐺🔝
"But why don't you actually ask them though?" The answer is social anxiety and this is one of the reasons I want to overcome it so badly
There are so many friends that, even if we're sharing NSFW stuff with each other, I want to ask "would you actually like to fuck though? Because I would 👀💦💦"
Not as a friendship requirement, but more of a "I'm bad at telling if you're just flirting or if you're interested, but I'm dtf if you are" 🐺
Not as a friendship requirement, but more of a "I'm bad at telling if you're just flirting or if you're interested, but I'm dtf if you are" 🐺
October 17, 2025 at 6:20 PM
"But why don't you actually ask them though?" The answer is social anxiety and this is one of the reasons I want to overcome it so badly
There are so many friends that, even if we're sharing NSFW stuff with each other, I want to ask "would you actually like to fuck though? Because I would 👀💦💦"
Not as a friendship requirement, but more of a "I'm bad at telling if you're just flirting or if you're interested, but I'm dtf if you are" 🐺
Not as a friendship requirement, but more of a "I'm bad at telling if you're just flirting or if you're interested, but I'm dtf if you are" 🐺
October 17, 2025 at 6:18 PM
There are so many friends that, even if we're sharing NSFW stuff with each other, I want to ask "would you actually like to fuck though? Because I would 👀💦💦"
Not as a friendship requirement, but more of a "I'm bad at telling if you're just flirting or if you're interested, but I'm dtf if you are" 🐺
Not as a friendship requirement, but more of a "I'm bad at telling if you're just flirting or if you're interested, but I'm dtf if you are" 🐺
Again my desire meter for "friends I want to roll around with and have sex with" is running VERY high today.
October 17, 2025 at 6:15 PM
Again my desire meter for "friends I want to roll around with and have sex with" is running VERY high today.
I actually really like it when guys are easy to get off 🐺 (I like it otherwise too, but it's just really fun having that ability to make someone feel something like that 💦)
September 10, 2025 at 6:06 PM
I actually really like it when guys are easy to get off 🐺 (I like it otherwise too, but it's just really fun having that ability to make someone feel something like that 💦)
All I want in a MFF roomie is someone I can roll around and be cozy with and not have to wear clothes with and can be gay on and who won't be against me inviting a friend up to the room for additional debauchery from time to time 🐺
September 10, 2025 at 2:07 AM
All I want in a MFF roomie is someone I can roll around and be cozy with and not have to wear clothes with and can be gay on and who won't be against me inviting a friend up to the room for additional debauchery from time to time 🐺
I wish I could say I'm not a sexually driven person, but man it sure would be nice to roll around naked with more folks on this vacation 🐺💦💦
(Got some good rolling around time the other night though at least 🐺❤️)
(Got some good rolling around time the other night though at least 🐺❤️)
September 9, 2025 at 3:33 PM
I wish I could say I'm not a sexually driven person, but man it sure would be nice to roll around naked with more folks on this vacation 🐺💦💦
(Got some good rolling around time the other night though at least 🐺❤️)
(Got some good rolling around time the other night though at least 🐺❤️)
I tend not to pre very much at all, tends to be very dry down there.
Except sometimes when someone manages to get me REALLY REALLY REALLY riled up with a lot of teasing, and then it just keeps leaking
Today is one of those days 🐺🍆💦💦💦💦💦
Except sometimes when someone manages to get me REALLY REALLY REALLY riled up with a lot of teasing, and then it just keeps leaking
Today is one of those days 🐺🍆💦💦💦💦💦
August 27, 2025 at 8:37 PM
I tend not to pre very much at all, tends to be very dry down there.
Except sometimes when someone manages to get me REALLY REALLY REALLY riled up with a lot of teasing, and then it just keeps leaking
Today is one of those days 🐺🍆💦💦💦💦💦
Except sometimes when someone manages to get me REALLY REALLY REALLY riled up with a lot of teasing, and then it just keeps leaking
Today is one of those days 🐺🍆💦💦💦💦💦
The need for physical affection, intimacy, and lewdness in person is very high today.
August 20, 2025 at 4:58 PM
The need for physical affection, intimacy, and lewdness in person is very high today.
As a general rule, if I'm comfortable enough with you to do some flirting, then I am very likely interested in hooking up with you. 🐺💦
August 14, 2025 at 7:41 PM
As a general rule, if I'm comfortable enough with you to do some flirting, then I am very likely interested in hooking up with you. 🐺💦
So many times I want to ask friends "are we just flirting or would you actually like to hook up? 👀"
August 14, 2025 at 7:39 PM
So many times I want to ask friends "are we just flirting or would you actually like to hook up? 👀"
Consider: 🐺🍆 in you right now
August 8, 2025 at 8:36 PM
Consider: 🐺🍆 in you right now
I do still take the occasional nude, but with no locked accounts here it's only for sending directly to folks via Telegram.
July 23, 2025 at 12:13 AM
I do still take the occasional nude, but with no locked accounts here it's only for sending directly to folks via Telegram.
This captures a lot of what I've been feeling. I long for that connection with folks, with friends, and often become sexually interested in them as a result.
The corollary for me is: for folks I find sexually attractive, I always want to form that sort of connection with them, not just hook up
The corollary for me is: for folks I find sexually attractive, I always want to form that sort of connection with them, not just hook up
July 22, 2025 at 10:20 PM
This captures a lot of what I've been feeling. I long for that connection with folks, with friends, and often become sexually interested in them as a result.
The corollary for me is: for folks I find sexually attractive, I always want to form that sort of connection with them, not just hook up
The corollary for me is: for folks I find sexually attractive, I always want to form that sort of connection with them, not just hook up