mostly, love is inheritance and projection
February 14, 2026 at 12:22 PM
mostly, love is inheritance and projection
things like war, -isms and sa - they strip pf physical dignity and infrastructure; heartbreak is of a differing ilk, it is personal
February 14, 2026 at 8:59 AM
things like war, -isms and sa - they strip pf physical dignity and infrastructure; heartbreak is of a differing ilk, it is personal
“pretending only delays clarity” - facebook mystic
February 14, 2026 at 1:40 AM
“pretending only delays clarity” - facebook mystic
it is depraved cruelty to make someone fall in love with you and then leave without a hint of notice
February 13, 2026 at 5:28 PM
it is depraved cruelty to make someone fall in love with you and then leave without a hint of notice
there is so much sadness with the parts of you that are not known
February 12, 2026 at 5:30 PM
there is so much sadness with the parts of you that are not known
developmental stages in adults
February 11, 2026 at 10:39 AM
developmental stages in adults
performative people can sometimes become so accustomed to their performance that they’re unable to negotiate between authentic self and projection
February 11, 2026 at 10:35 AM
performative people can sometimes become so accustomed to their performance that they’re unable to negotiate between authentic self and projection
wild glory hunting stems from deep deficit of childhood approval
February 11, 2026 at 10:20 AM
wild glory hunting stems from deep deficit of childhood approval
the more insecure people are, the more performative they are
February 11, 2026 at 9:54 AM
the more insecure people are, the more performative they are
incompetence in adults is the biggest anti aphrodisiac
February 11, 2026 at 9:40 AM
incompetence in adults is the biggest anti aphrodisiac
fun relies in internal safety; fun friendship relies on comparable metrics of internal safety
February 11, 2026 at 9:35 AM
fun relies in internal safety; fun friendship relies on comparable metrics of internal safety
bad bunny is brave. its important to recognize this when people demonstrate nobility
February 11, 2026 at 9:28 AM
bad bunny is brave. its important to recognize this when people demonstrate nobility
one of the worst things about the disturbing prevalence of cancer is the remarkable prevalence of the tangible prevention & how inaccessible this is
February 11, 2026 at 9:24 AM
one of the worst things about the disturbing prevalence of cancer is the remarkable prevalence of the tangible prevention & how inaccessible this is
emotionally immature people will have trouble decentering themselves in relationships, & possibly the world too
February 9, 2026 at 5:18 PM
emotionally immature people will have trouble decentering themselves in relationships, & possibly the world too
there are two types of people in hc: i watched my father beat my mother until he murdered her at thirteen then ran away to live on the breadline and barely made it out VS i have ADHD and my parents divorced when i was five
February 7, 2026 at 4:43 PM
there are two types of people in hc: i watched my father beat my mother until he murdered her at thirteen then ran away to live on the breadline and barely made it out VS i have ADHD and my parents divorced when i was five
human relationships are proportionally more difficult the more psychologically underdeveloped you are
February 7, 2026 at 11:54 AM
human relationships are proportionally more difficult the more psychologically underdeveloped you are
“I don’t know how to prioritise myself so when you make space for me to make decisions i am crippled with anxiety and this comes out w my sharp spikes. i dont know how to accept love - i was never given it as a child, it was conditional- so i cut you to keep my broken ego safe; the only way i know”
February 6, 2026 at 9:39 PM
“I don’t know how to prioritise myself so when you make space for me to make decisions i am crippled with anxiety and this comes out w my sharp spikes. i dont know how to accept love - i was never given it as a child, it was conditional- so i cut you to keep my broken ego safe; the only way i know”
Women’s overfunctioning often occurs when a woman explains what’s upset her, a man is offended or defensive, and then a woman ends up appeasing the situation and his hurt - even though he was the one who caused psychological injury to her
February 6, 2026 at 1:59 PM
Women’s overfunctioning often occurs when a woman explains what’s upset her, a man is offended or defensive, and then a woman ends up appeasing the situation and his hurt - even though he was the one who caused psychological injury to her
if a man hits you & you take it, does that make you a people pleaser? in some ways - not because you inherently are one, but you have been moulded into a diminished role, in the same way you can be a securely attached person but date an extreme avoidant (peter pan) and you will devolve to anxious
February 6, 2026 at 6:23 AM
if a man hits you & you take it, does that make you a people pleaser? in some ways - not because you inherently are one, but you have been moulded into a diminished role, in the same way you can be a securely attached person but date an extreme avoidant (peter pan) and you will devolve to anxious
Be the change you want to see in the world, yes, but the change you want to see yourself as well
February 6, 2026 at 12:39 AM
Be the change you want to see in the world, yes, but the change you want to see yourself as well
“if they wanted to they would” is a projection of self. not everyone has the bandwidth, not everyone wants to, and if they can’t be bothered to do it anyway - what does it matter??
February 5, 2026 at 10:42 PM
“if they wanted to they would” is a projection of self. not everyone has the bandwidth, not everyone wants to, and if they can’t be bothered to do it anyway - what does it matter??
“put your money where your mouth is” is actually a great phrase that pertains to anything with great wealth - not just fiscal. time, attentiveness, presence. talk is cheap
February 5, 2026 at 10:40 PM
“put your money where your mouth is” is actually a great phrase that pertains to anything with great wealth - not just fiscal. time, attentiveness, presence. talk is cheap
guys guys guys. if youre claiming the terms polymath, empath or philanthropist for yourself - i hate to break it to you but…
February 5, 2026 at 9:27 PM
guys guys guys. if youre claiming the terms polymath, empath or philanthropist for yourself - i hate to break it to you but…