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Liz Ryan
@lizryan.bsky.social
Creator and coach. CEO, Human Workplace. Author, soprano, mom
If you know right now that you would never work for this organization, decline.

Just a quick email that says, “Thanks so much for the invitation; my situation has changed, and I’m no longer a candidate for this role” will do the trick.

Here’s to you!
June 10, 2025 at 3:50 PM
A. If you could use interview practice or you want to learn more about the organization in case they might have a more suitable position for you (either now or later) go to the interview.

There’s no downside except the time investment.
June 10, 2025 at 3:50 PM
February 26, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Same!
February 17, 2025 at 3:28 AM
She wrote back, please call me anyway.

Liz I am here to do my job, not help my boss’s wife with her side projects.

What should I do?

Thanks,

Anjali

FOLKS, what would you do in this situation?
February 17, 2025 at 12:49 AM
I thought that was it, but this week, she wrote to me, and said, call me, I need your help again.

I wrote back and said, I wish I could help, I am slammed at work and anyway we’ve reached the limit to my social media knowledge.
February 17, 2025 at 12:49 AM
I thought that really pushed a boundary.

Free consulting from me to her, on company time. I had not taken notes. I tried to remember the conversation. I sent her a short email with three bullet points.
February 17, 2025 at 12:49 AM
She is a real talker. It took me three tries to finally get her off the phone. It was very awkward.

As we finished the call, she asked me to write down everything I told her and send it to her in an email message.
February 17, 2025 at 12:49 AM