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My sister did the same a few years earlier.
We 'solo' travelled long before it became a 'thing'. Without phones or tech.
You do you, but it's nothing new.
My sister did the same a few years earlier.
We 'solo' travelled long before it became a 'thing'. Without phones or tech.
You do you, but it's nothing new.
But the people you meet along the way might.
But the people you meet along the way might.
It's stunning and I love living five minutes walk away.
But guess what?
Google filtered the F out of my original photo and made it look like this.
Like most travel photos you see online.
It's stunning and I love living five minutes walk away.
But guess what?
Google filtered the F out of my original photo and made it look like this.
Like most travel photos you see online.
What a load of sh*t.
You, your problems and everything else gets on the plane with you.
It's just a different environment to figure your life stuff out.
That's the reality.
What a load of sh*t.
You, your problems and everything else gets on the plane with you.
It's just a different environment to figure your life stuff out.
That's the reality.
It makes you look like a dick.
It makes you look like a dick.
And it's not for everyone.
It's a full-time gig with no routine and little support when you really need it.
Read the fine print.
And it's not for everyone.
It's a full-time gig with no routine and little support when you really need it.
Read the fine print.
I saw the same yesterday.
Not once did I look at any of them and think:
'Are you a traveller or tourist?'
Get my drift? Such a ridiculous debate.
I saw the same yesterday.
Not once did I look at any of them and think:
'Are you a traveller or tourist?'
Get my drift? Such a ridiculous debate.
- Not to make resolutions
- Not to make promises
- Certainly not to make a list
It's a time to reflect and see how I changed.
That's where the truth lies.
Good or bad, it's a place to start.
Let's win 2025,team 🙏
- Not to make resolutions
- Not to make promises
- Certainly not to make a list
It's a time to reflect and see how I changed.
That's where the truth lies.
Good or bad, it's a place to start.
Let's win 2025,team 🙏
38. When you get ripped off, move on quickly
39. If your motivation for travel is for likes and shares, you're doing it wrong
40. Don't get upset when you lose touch with people at home. They don't get it.
38. When you get ripped off, move on quickly
39. If your motivation for travel is for likes and shares, you're doing it wrong
40. Don't get upset when you lose touch with people at home. They don't get it.
34. Learn to pack light. If you don't, you will be forced to
35. It's ok to be homesick. Just don't let it go on for too long
36. Put your friend network to good use. Knowing someone local is awesome
34. Learn to pack light. If you don't, you will be forced to
35. It's ok to be homesick. Just don't let it go on for too long
36. Put your friend network to good use. Knowing someone local is awesome
30. Keep a journal or voice notes - you'll wish you had
31. Understand bartering is a skill. Practice it often and have fun with it.
32. Take public transportation at every opportunity
30. Keep a journal or voice notes - you'll wish you had
31. Understand bartering is a skill. Practice it often and have fun with it.
32. Take public transportation at every opportunity
27. No one cares about your job at home. People take you at face value.
28. Most offers of help and advice come from a good place
27. No one cares about your job at home. People take you at face value.
28. Most offers of help and advice come from a good place
22. Neither is being the blind drunk tourist
23. Keep in touch with family at every opportunity
24. Take lots of photos (but only share a few)
25. Try as many types of food as possible
22. Neither is being the blind drunk tourist
23. Keep in touch with family at every opportunity
24. Take lots of photos (but only share a few)
25. Try as many types of food as possible
18. Don't feel guilty about being a tourist. You being there helps put food on the table
19. Music is a global language
20. Local scams are everywhere, you just have to learn about them
18. Don't feel guilty about being a tourist. You being there helps put food on the table
19. Music is a global language
20. Local scams are everywhere, you just have to learn about them
13. Telling locals how things are better at home isn't
14. You will fall in love dozens of times
15. And probably have your heart broken just as much
16. Most of the world is still a cash society. Have it available
13. Telling locals how things are better at home isn't
14. You will fall in love dozens of times
15. And probably have your heart broken just as much
16. Most of the world is still a cash society. Have it available
8. Your values are challenged wherever you go. Accept it and move on.
9. Learning one or two words of a language opens more doors than you think
10. Buy a Sim (or Esim) card
11. If it feels dodgy it probably is
8. Your values are challenged wherever you go. Accept it and move on.
9. Learning one or two words of a language opens more doors than you think
10. Buy a Sim (or Esim) card
11. If it feels dodgy it probably is
2. People at home probably won't notice you have gone.
3. You have more in common with other cultures than you think
4. Everyone makes assumptions about you too
5. Friends are easy to make
6. But hard to keep
2. People at home probably won't notice you have gone.
3. You have more in common with other cultures than you think
4. Everyone makes assumptions about you too
5. Friends are easy to make
6. But hard to keep
Spoiler: It's not what you expect.
Spoiler: It's not what you expect.
Live somewhere you don't want to leave.
Happy Friday from New Zealand! 🌅
Live somewhere you don't want to leave.
Happy Friday from New Zealand! 🌅
Warm summers, mild winters and a cool community.
Come say hi. You'll probably find me down the beach.
Warm summers, mild winters and a cool community.
Come say hi. You'll probably find me down the beach.
Had an "oh f*ck, I had that wrong moment".
This is the real learning.
You don't 'find yourself' - you just come back with a different perspective.
That's what counts.
Had an "oh f*ck, I had that wrong moment".
This is the real learning.
You don't 'find yourself' - you just come back with a different perspective.
That's what counts.
1. Buy lunches, not dinners
2. Compare activity prices
3. Drink in happy hours
4. Use public transport cards
5. Buy city passes
6. Negotiate Airbnb rates
7. Check voucher sites
8. Ask locals where to go
You?
1. Buy lunches, not dinners
2. Compare activity prices
3. Drink in happy hours
4. Use public transport cards
5. Buy city passes
6. Negotiate Airbnb rates
7. Check voucher sites
8. Ask locals where to go
You?