And then there's the prevailing idea that bad actors aren't responsible for their behavior. it's the job of the "reasonable" folks to control the unreasonable, and calling out the bad actors is somehow trying to deflect our responsibility to manage them. That has landed us SQUARELY here today.

I can hear this in my grandpa’s voice. 🤣

This is my struggle with a lot of autism related groups/places. Like yes, I struggle with accidentally saying something to harsh, but I’m also Black!!! I’d have never made it w/o figuring out some kind of tact. It’s hard, not impossible.

I think listing what I haven’t might be easier. 🥴🫠