jasmine is also associated with ghosts and supernatural entities especially women ghosts like the traditional long, black-haired women in white (kuntilanak and her friends)
so for me melati (jasmine) is for women.
but anggrek (orchids) is also a gay ass flower too tbh.
idk

sexual violence is THE patriarchal technology of oppression. wherever there is any kind of oppression--colonialism, genocide, capitalism, the state, the police--there is sexual violence as its frontline operative mechanism. the child is THE archetypal object of legitimate disciplinary violence.

when RWers say "grooming" they mean "threatening my patriarchal sexual authority, corrupting my property, damaging my goods." they don't actually mean anything to do with sexual abuse, which they see as perfectly permissible under the right circumstances.