Leijla Foss
@leijlafoss.bsky.social
refined, rebellious, and real
tailored adventures • poetry • meaningful connection
for connoisseurs of connection
✈️ DC based
https://allmylinks.com/leijlafoss
tailored adventures • poetry • meaningful connection
for connoisseurs of connection
✈️ DC based
https://allmylinks.com/leijlafoss
It’s that time of year where everything comes all at once
last-minute work to-do's, travel needs to be booked, gifts to buy, year-end review, navigating family dynamics
I know how this plays out
You'll take care of it all, you always do
But who takes care of YOU?
P.S. Keep an eye out for 11/22
last-minute work to-do's, travel needs to be booked, gifts to buy, year-end review, navigating family dynamics
I know how this plays out
You'll take care of it all, you always do
But who takes care of YOU?
P.S. Keep an eye out for 11/22
November 17, 2025 at 2:49 AM
It’s that time of year where everything comes all at once
last-minute work to-do's, travel needs to be booked, gifts to buy, year-end review, navigating family dynamics
I know how this plays out
You'll take care of it all, you always do
But who takes care of YOU?
P.S. Keep an eye out for 11/22
last-minute work to-do's, travel needs to be booked, gifts to buy, year-end review, navigating family dynamics
I know how this plays out
You'll take care of it all, you always do
But who takes care of YOU?
P.S. Keep an eye out for 11/22
Last week I was sitting in questions & feelings about my exclusive arrangement starting in 2026
However I realized *these aren't fears about making the wrong choice*
These are natural thoughts about making ANY CHOICE
What’s scarier is seeing regret staying the same when I’m ready for an evolution
However I realized *these aren't fears about making the wrong choice*
These are natural thoughts about making ANY CHOICE
What’s scarier is seeing regret staying the same when I’m ready for an evolution
November 14, 2025 at 12:17 AM
Last week I was sitting in questions & feelings about my exclusive arrangement starting in 2026
However I realized *these aren't fears about making the wrong choice*
These are natural thoughts about making ANY CHOICE
What’s scarier is seeing regret staying the same when I’m ready for an evolution
However I realized *these aren't fears about making the wrong choice*
These are natural thoughts about making ANY CHOICE
What’s scarier is seeing regret staying the same when I’m ready for an evolution
Real luxury isn't about flash.
It's about a man who knows the difference between expensive and valuable
And then invests in the latter.
It's about a man who knows the difference between expensive and valuable
And then invests in the latter.
November 11, 2025 at 1:19 PM
Real luxury isn't about flash.
It's about a man who knows the difference between expensive and valuable
And then invests in the latter.
It's about a man who knows the difference between expensive and valuable
And then invests in the latter.
What separates the man who books from one who keeps thinking on it?
Knowing 'someday' won't always be there
After December 31st, 2025, I won't be available. That's not a sales tactic: it's the truth
So if you've thought 'maybe next time', I need you to understand there is no next time after December
Knowing 'someday' won't always be there
After December 31st, 2025, I won't be available. That's not a sales tactic: it's the truth
So if you've thought 'maybe next time', I need you to understand there is no next time after December
November 10, 2025 at 2:49 AM
What separates the man who books from one who keeps thinking on it?
Knowing 'someday' won't always be there
After December 31st, 2025, I won't be available. That's not a sales tactic: it's the truth
So if you've thought 'maybe next time', I need you to understand there is no next time after December
Knowing 'someday' won't always be there
After December 31st, 2025, I won't be available. That's not a sales tactic: it's the truth
So if you've thought 'maybe next time', I need you to understand there is no next time after December
We have until December. That's it.
Come January 2026, my availability disappears.
If you've been waiting for the perfect moment, this is me telling you the perfect moment is NOW.
Because after December 31st, there is no 'next time.'
Let's make this happen while we still can.
🌐 lejilafoss.me
Come January 2026, my availability disappears.
If you've been waiting for the perfect moment, this is me telling you the perfect moment is NOW.
Because after December 31st, there is no 'next time.'
Let's make this happen while we still can.
🌐 lejilafoss.me
November 7, 2025 at 1:21 PM
We have until December. That's it.
Come January 2026, my availability disappears.
If you've been waiting for the perfect moment, this is me telling you the perfect moment is NOW.
Because after December 31st, there is no 'next time.'
Let's make this happen while we still can.
🌐 lejilafoss.me
Come January 2026, my availability disappears.
If you've been waiting for the perfect moment, this is me telling you the perfect moment is NOW.
Because after December 31st, there is no 'next time.'
Let's make this happen while we still can.
🌐 lejilafoss.me
I'm stepping into something exclusive starting in 2026.
An exclusive arrangement with a client and I’ll no longer be seeing other clients for the foreseeable future.
So if you've been thinking about it, this is me telling you that 'someday' has a deadline now.
An exclusive arrangement with a client and I’ll no longer be seeing other clients for the foreseeable future.
So if you've been thinking about it, this is me telling you that 'someday' has a deadline now.
November 5, 2025 at 5:17 PM
I'm stepping into something exclusive starting in 2026.
An exclusive arrangement with a client and I’ll no longer be seeing other clients for the foreseeable future.
So if you've been thinking about it, this is me telling you that 'someday' has a deadline now.
An exclusive arrangement with a client and I’ll no longer be seeing other clients for the foreseeable future.
So if you've been thinking about it, this is me telling you that 'someday' has a deadline now.
Decadence isn't just about what you consume. It's about knowing when something rare is in front of you and not hesitating.
Some things don't come around twice.
I'll explain what I mean in my next post.
Some things don't come around twice.
I'll explain what I mean in my next post.
November 4, 2025 at 12:15 AM
Decadence isn't just about what you consume. It's about knowing when something rare is in front of you and not hesitating.
Some things don't come around twice.
I'll explain what I mean in my next post.
Some things don't come around twice.
I'll explain what I mean in my next post.
I've been thinking about the men who've trusted me with their time, their vulnerability, their presence.
Every appointment and every moment of letting the world quiet down.
Thank you for showing up. For being exactly who you are.
I need to tell you something about what's coming next.
(More soon.)
Every appointment and every moment of letting the world quiet down.
Thank you for showing up. For being exactly who you are.
I need to tell you something about what's coming next.
(More soon.)
November 1, 2025 at 12:15 PM
I've been thinking about the men who've trusted me with their time, their vulnerability, their presence.
Every appointment and every moment of letting the world quiet down.
Thank you for showing up. For being exactly who you are.
I need to tell you something about what's coming next.
(More soon.)
Every appointment and every moment of letting the world quiet down.
Thank you for showing up. For being exactly who you are.
I need to tell you something about what's coming next.
(More soon.)
Showing up imperfectly still counts. Wrong place, right intention—you still get there.
October's almost over. What's in your "someday" folder?
October's almost over. What's in your "someday" folder?
October 30, 2025 at 11:17 PM
Showing up imperfectly still counts. Wrong place, right intention—you still get there.
October's almost over. What's in your "someday" folder?
October's almost over. What's in your "someday" folder?
April in Miami taught me something I keep coming back to.
I showed up to the *wrong airport*. Completely wrong. The woman at the counter had to rebook me on a different flight, leaving from where I actually was.
I showed up to the *wrong airport*. Completely wrong. The woman at the counter had to rebook me on a different flight, leaving from where I actually was.
October 30, 2025 at 11:17 PM
April in Miami taught me something I keep coming back to.
I showed up to the *wrong airport*. Completely wrong. The woman at the counter had to rebook me on a different flight, leaving from where I actually was.
I showed up to the *wrong airport*. Completely wrong. The woman at the counter had to rebook me on a different flight, leaving from where I actually was.
I almost didn't post this photo...wasn’t sure if the pose was right.
Then I realized that's exactly what this quote is about.
Make your move. xoxo
Then I realized that's exactly what this quote is about.
Make your move. xoxo
October 28, 2025 at 12:19 PM
I almost didn't post this photo...wasn’t sure if the pose was right.
Then I realized that's exactly what this quote is about.
Make your move. xoxo
Then I realized that's exactly what this quote is about.
Make your move. xoxo
Found this last week (while endlessly scrolling). Can't stop thinking about it.
The cicada doesn't wait to be ready.
And neither should you.
Ready to go deeper? Start with my website. xoxo
The cicada doesn't wait to be ready.
And neither should you.
Ready to go deeper? Start with my website. xoxo
October 26, 2025 at 12:52 PM
Found this last week (while endlessly scrolling). Can't stop thinking about it.
The cicada doesn't wait to be ready.
And neither should you.
Ready to go deeper? Start with my website. xoxo
The cicada doesn't wait to be ready.
And neither should you.
Ready to go deeper? Start with my website. xoxo
You're allowed to want beautiful things. Beautiful experiences. Beautiful moments.
Without justification.
I'm curious: what's holding you back from what you truly want?
Without justification.
I'm curious: what's holding you back from what you truly want?
October 23, 2025 at 11:17 PM
You're allowed to want beautiful things. Beautiful experiences. Beautiful moments.
Without justification.
I'm curious: what's holding you back from what you truly want?
Without justification.
I'm curious: what's holding you back from what you truly want?
You are worthy.
I'm telling you that because the men I draw in— ones with refined taste and quiet power—sometimes forget.
I'm telling you that because the men I draw in— ones with refined taste and quiet power—sometimes forget.
October 21, 2025 at 12:19 PM
You are worthy.
I'm telling you that because the men I draw in— ones with refined taste and quiet power—sometimes forget.
I'm telling you that because the men I draw in— ones with refined taste and quiet power—sometimes forget.
It took me years to understand: worthiness isn't about what you've achieved. It's about who you already are.
I'm curious: what would you do differently if you knew you were already enough?
I'm curious: what would you do differently if you knew you were already enough?
October 19, 2025 at 12:52 PM
It took me years to understand: worthiness isn't about what you've achieved. It's about who you already are.
I'm curious: what would you do differently if you knew you were already enough?
I'm curious: what would you do differently if you knew you were already enough?
The man who gives proper notice isn't just being polite. He's showing how he handles everything valuable in his life.
October 16, 2025 at 11:17 PM
The man who gives proper notice isn't just being polite. He's showing how he handles everything valuable in his life.
would just become Tuesday dinner.
The scarcity isn't artificial. It's protective.
It preserves the magic.
In the same way, I set a table for one.
I can be yours… when you decide you're hungry for something worth waiting for.
The scarcity isn't artificial. It's protective.
It preserves the magic.
In the same way, I set a table for one.
I can be yours… when you decide you're hungry for something worth waiting for.
October 14, 2025 at 12:19 PM
would just become Tuesday dinner.
The scarcity isn't artificial. It's protective.
It preserves the magic.
In the same way, I set a table for one.
I can be yours… when you decide you're hungry for something worth waiting for.
The scarcity isn't artificial. It's protective.
It preserves the magic.
In the same way, I set a table for one.
I can be yours… when you decide you're hungry for something worth waiting for.
Consider your favorite restaurant—the one you reserve weeks ahead.
Imagine if you could walk in every night. The impeccable service would become invisible. The perfectly composed plates, mundane.
What was once an event you planned around, thought about, dressed for...
Imagine if you could walk in every night. The impeccable service would become invisible. The perfectly composed plates, mundane.
What was once an event you planned around, thought about, dressed for...
October 14, 2025 at 12:19 PM
Consider your favorite restaurant—the one you reserve weeks ahead.
Imagine if you could walk in every night. The impeccable service would become invisible. The perfectly composed plates, mundane.
What was once an event you planned around, thought about, dressed for...
Imagine if you could walk in every night. The impeccable service would become invisible. The perfectly composed plates, mundane.
What was once an event you planned around, thought about, dressed for...
You can have your favorite whiskey delivered in two hours.
But you still prefer the bartender who makes you wait while he crafts it properly.
Some things are worth the beautiful inconvenience.
But you still prefer the bartender who makes you wait while he crafts it properly.
Some things are worth the beautiful inconvenience.
October 12, 2025 at 12:52 PM
You can have your favorite whiskey delivered in two hours.
But you still prefer the bartender who makes you wait while he crafts it properly.
Some things are worth the beautiful inconvenience.
But you still prefer the bartender who makes you wait while he crafts it properly.
Some things are worth the beautiful inconvenience.
Does immediate gratification give us anything memorable?
Reply and give me your opinion. 👇
Reply and give me your opinion. 👇
October 9, 2025 at 11:17 PM
Does immediate gratification give us anything memorable?
Reply and give me your opinion. 👇
Reply and give me your opinion. 👇
One of the most attractive things about a man isn't what he's achieved, but how comfortable he is in the spaces between achievements.
October 1, 2025 at 12:35 AM
One of the most attractive things about a man isn't what he's achieved, but how comfortable he is in the spaces between achievements.
Let me tell you a secret about this dinner…
Plot twist: this dish from a $400 tasting menu gave me and my date both food poisoning 🤢
But what happened next taught me everything about real experiences.
I realized that bonding happens when we stop performing and start being human ✨
Plot twist: this dish from a $400 tasting menu gave me and my date both food poisoning 🤢
But what happened next taught me everything about real experiences.
I realized that bonding happens when we stop performing and start being human ✨
September 23, 2025 at 12:19 PM
Let me tell you a secret about this dinner…
Plot twist: this dish from a $400 tasting menu gave me and my date both food poisoning 🤢
But what happened next taught me everything about real experiences.
I realized that bonding happens when we stop performing and start being human ✨
Plot twist: this dish from a $400 tasting menu gave me and my date both food poisoning 🤢
But what happened next taught me everything about real experiences.
I realized that bonding happens when we stop performing and start being human ✨
The best things require proximity to fully appreciate.
Some men understand it instinctively… that true sophistication reveals itself in layers, not announcements.
Some men understand it instinctively… that true sophistication reveals itself in layers, not announcements.
September 22, 2025 at 1:49 AM
The best things require proximity to fully appreciate.
Some men understand it instinctively… that true sophistication reveals itself in layers, not announcements.
Some men understand it instinctively… that true sophistication reveals itself in layers, not announcements.
I take a pause before choosing who I want to be today.
I’m intentional about the choices I make
The most magnetic people understand this: how you show up matters.
#datedc #gfe #datevirginia #fmty
I’m intentional about the choices I make
The most magnetic people understand this: how you show up matters.
#datedc #gfe #datevirginia #fmty
September 18, 2025 at 11:41 AM
I take a pause before choosing who I want to be today.
I’m intentional about the choices I make
The most magnetic people understand this: how you show up matters.
#datedc #gfe #datevirginia #fmty
I’m intentional about the choices I make
The most magnetic people understand this: how you show up matters.
#datedc #gfe #datevirginia #fmty