i had an ex reach out not long ago, apologizing to me for this exact thing and acknowledging he had no idea why he'd always done it and that he'd felt bad ab it for all these years..

but i experience this A LOT with others and i don't understand why

my issue is that... nearly my entire life, has been this scenario?? like people are just naturally inclined to disagree with me and i don't get why..
just to change their minds later???

tbf Fallout was also phenomenal and Arcane was before 2024... but also Ella Purnell won either way 🤣