that does sound really frustrating

that's all very helpful, thank you. And this definitely hits the core of the issue: "The moderator problem is that if you get a bad moderator, they become landed gentry, and a good moderator is basically just giving themselves to the community for no benefit to themselves"

that sounds really shitty, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Would you be comfortable sharing which subreddit it was?

anything you think is important, the more context, the better

I believe it, up for sharing more details via DM?

oh wow, that's super cool

I'm a broncos fan but I do not want a broncos phone