(2/2) There are other VALID ways they are contributing, stop alienating your allies.

But a valid one, many of us are not willing to bring our children to rallies

Prowoman does not mean antiman. There is no racism in feminism, there is not homophobia in feminism, there is no transphobia in feminism. There is no patriarchy or oligarchy in feminism. There is no ableism in feminism
None of this is to say your feelings aren’t valid, they’re just yours to unpack

Ruminate on why it bothers you so much. And realize that even you don’t immediately see allies when looking at other YT Women. Refocus on “not me, not my friends” and actively call people out for the things that make them unsafe for marginalized people.
Pro black does not mean anti white.