Komrade Montell
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Carl Jung had an interesting model about the structure of our mind.
Check it out.
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Check it out.
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People have this compulsion of doing things wrong,, again & again.
•Like an individual who chooses wrong partners,, again & again
•Psychologists call this Repetitive Compulsion
An attempt to resolve the unresolved eg wishes, desires etc by recreating similiar dynamics
•Like an individual who chooses wrong partners,, again & again
•Psychologists call this Repetitive Compulsion
An attempt to resolve the unresolved eg wishes, desires etc by recreating similiar dynamics
January 17, 2026 at 5:44 PM
People have this compulsion of doing things wrong,, again & again.
•Like an individual who chooses wrong partners,, again & again
•Psychologists call this Repetitive Compulsion
An attempt to resolve the unresolved eg wishes, desires etc by recreating similiar dynamics
•Like an individual who chooses wrong partners,, again & again
•Psychologists call this Repetitive Compulsion
An attempt to resolve the unresolved eg wishes, desires etc by recreating similiar dynamics
We all have aggressive tendencies,, greed, anger and a dark side.
We don't need to bury it.
We need to integrate them.
We don't need to bury it.
We need to integrate them.
January 17, 2026 at 12:02 AM
We all have aggressive tendencies,, greed, anger and a dark side.
We don't need to bury it.
We need to integrate them.
We don't need to bury it.
We need to integrate them.
Mindfulness is a great weapon in the modern world where everyone seems distracted.
Living in the moment and reconnecting to nature.
The past is already gone,, forgive yourself for it.
The future has not yet happened,, now is the only time to make it happen.
#Psychology
Living in the moment and reconnecting to nature.
The past is already gone,, forgive yourself for it.
The future has not yet happened,, now is the only time to make it happen.
#Psychology
January 16, 2026 at 3:28 PM
Mindfulness is a great weapon in the modern world where everyone seems distracted.
Living in the moment and reconnecting to nature.
The past is already gone,, forgive yourself for it.
The future has not yet happened,, now is the only time to make it happen.
#Psychology
Living in the moment and reconnecting to nature.
The past is already gone,, forgive yourself for it.
The future has not yet happened,, now is the only time to make it happen.
#Psychology
• The Qualities shunned at school might be what the outside world needs.
Conformity while the outside world reward those who embrace their uniqueness.
obedience while the outside world reward those who bend away from the status quo. Humility instead of assertiveness
Conformity while the outside world reward those who embrace their uniqueness.
obedience while the outside world reward those who bend away from the status quo. Humility instead of assertiveness
January 16, 2026 at 6:19 AM
• The Qualities shunned at school might be what the outside world needs.
Conformity while the outside world reward those who embrace their uniqueness.
obedience while the outside world reward those who bend away from the status quo. Humility instead of assertiveness
Conformity while the outside world reward those who embrace their uniqueness.
obedience while the outside world reward those who bend away from the status quo. Humility instead of assertiveness
•Some of us were taught to shrink ourselves just to make others feel comfortable.
•In our quest to earn approval, we started performing & developing weak or no boundaries. But this came at a cost of authentic selves & own needs.
•Empathy start with thyself.
#Psychology
•In our quest to earn approval, we started performing & developing weak or no boundaries. But this came at a cost of authentic selves & own needs.
•Empathy start with thyself.
#Psychology
January 15, 2026 at 2:07 AM
•Some of us were taught to shrink ourselves just to make others feel comfortable.
•In our quest to earn approval, we started performing & developing weak or no boundaries. But this came at a cost of authentic selves & own needs.
•Empathy start with thyself.
#Psychology
•In our quest to earn approval, we started performing & developing weak or no boundaries. But this came at a cost of authentic selves & own needs.
•Empathy start with thyself.
#Psychology
You were taught to shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable.
You neglected your needs.
You started performing.
But at a cost.
You neglected your needs.
You started performing.
But at a cost.
January 14, 2026 at 2:42 PM
You were taught to shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable.
You neglected your needs.
You started performing.
But at a cost.
You neglected your needs.
You started performing.
But at a cost.
•Familiar Suffering has a strange comfort to our minds.
•You see one unable to leave an abusive relationship or draining job.
It's like the brain has a "Better the devil I know than the Angel I'm not aware of" slogan.
Psychologists Call it The Mere Exposure effect.
•You see one unable to leave an abusive relationship or draining job.
It's like the brain has a "Better the devil I know than the Angel I'm not aware of" slogan.
Psychologists Call it The Mere Exposure effect.
January 14, 2026 at 4:07 AM
•Familiar Suffering has a strange comfort to our minds.
•You see one unable to leave an abusive relationship or draining job.
It's like the brain has a "Better the devil I know than the Angel I'm not aware of" slogan.
Psychologists Call it The Mere Exposure effect.
•You see one unable to leave an abusive relationship or draining job.
It's like the brain has a "Better the devil I know than the Angel I'm not aware of" slogan.
Psychologists Call it The Mere Exposure effect.
In the past I used to think escaping the matrix was all about.
=Quitting school
= Quitting jobs or whatever
• But I think there is no matrix outside there.
• It's inside us. It's about our beliefs.
• If it's an entity then it's our mind.
1/2
=Quitting school
= Quitting jobs or whatever
• But I think there is no matrix outside there.
• It's inside us. It's about our beliefs.
• If it's an entity then it's our mind.
1/2
January 13, 2026 at 7:46 AM
In the past I used to think escaping the matrix was all about.
=Quitting school
= Quitting jobs or whatever
• But I think there is no matrix outside there.
• It's inside us. It's about our beliefs.
• If it's an entity then it's our mind.
1/2
=Quitting school
= Quitting jobs or whatever
• But I think there is no matrix outside there.
• It's inside us. It's about our beliefs.
• If it's an entity then it's our mind.
1/2
Familliar suffering has a strange comfort to our minds.
The mere exposure effect!
The mere exposure effect!
January 12, 2026 at 3:35 PM
Familliar suffering has a strange comfort to our minds.
The mere exposure effect!
The mere exposure effect!
Most of our lives are run by demons running in the background!
Demons from the past! From our childhood!
That individual selecting wrong partners again & again.
The divorces!
The self sabotage.
Carl Jung ; "Until we make the unconscious concious, it will direct our lives & we shall call it fate"
Demons from the past! From our childhood!
That individual selecting wrong partners again & again.
The divorces!
The self sabotage.
Carl Jung ; "Until we make the unconscious concious, it will direct our lives & we shall call it fate"
January 9, 2026 at 8:37 AM
Most of our lives are run by demons running in the background!
Demons from the past! From our childhood!
That individual selecting wrong partners again & again.
The divorces!
The self sabotage.
Carl Jung ; "Until we make the unconscious concious, it will direct our lives & we shall call it fate"
Demons from the past! From our childhood!
That individual selecting wrong partners again & again.
The divorces!
The self sabotage.
Carl Jung ; "Until we make the unconscious concious, it will direct our lives & we shall call it fate"
This passion because it is so strong, must destroy in order to be contained within the limits of self-preservation.
January 8, 2026 at 5:36 PM
This passion because it is so strong, must destroy in order to be contained within the limits of self-preservation.
Some of us were taught to shrink to keep others comfortable.
To earn approval, we learnt to make ourselves small.
We became the underdogs!
We never set boundaries!
But this come at a cost of our authentic selves!
Never shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable.
To earn approval, we learnt to make ourselves small.
We became the underdogs!
We never set boundaries!
But this come at a cost of our authentic selves!
Never shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable.
January 7, 2026 at 8:32 AM
Some of us were taught to shrink to keep others comfortable.
To earn approval, we learnt to make ourselves small.
We became the underdogs!
We never set boundaries!
But this come at a cost of our authentic selves!
Never shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable.
To earn approval, we learnt to make ourselves small.
We became the underdogs!
We never set boundaries!
But this come at a cost of our authentic selves!
Never shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable.
Some of the qualities shunned in school might be what the real world needs.
Carl Jung talked about The shadow. A reservoir for the qualities we disowned due society; Media, school, parents & even peers.
The outer world rewards; Authenticity, Individuation, Changing rules and Assertiveness.
Carl Jung talked about The shadow. A reservoir for the qualities we disowned due society; Media, school, parents & even peers.
The outer world rewards; Authenticity, Individuation, Changing rules and Assertiveness.
January 6, 2026 at 8:26 AM
Some of the qualities shunned in school might be what the real world needs.
Carl Jung talked about The shadow. A reservoir for the qualities we disowned due society; Media, school, parents & even peers.
The outer world rewards; Authenticity, Individuation, Changing rules and Assertiveness.
Carl Jung talked about The shadow. A reservoir for the qualities we disowned due society; Media, school, parents & even peers.
The outer world rewards; Authenticity, Individuation, Changing rules and Assertiveness.
We are sometimes attracted to partners who are bad to us because they offer an environment that may be familliar to what happened to us in childhood.
Our brains crave for the familiar even if it's predictable or safe.
#love #relationship #carljung #psychology
Our brains crave for the familiar even if it's predictable or safe.
#love #relationship #carljung #psychology
January 5, 2026 at 5:06 PM
We are sometimes attracted to partners who are bad to us because they offer an environment that may be familliar to what happened to us in childhood.
Our brains crave for the familiar even if it's predictable or safe.
#love #relationship #carljung #psychology
Our brains crave for the familiar even if it's predictable or safe.
#love #relationship #carljung #psychology
Most people hate you when you start choosing yourself & prioritizing your needs.
Your authenticity threatens them.
They loved you with all your performance.
You were manipulatable!
A doormat.
You were a giver!
You were desperate!
You prioritized their needs over yours
And they loved it.
Your authenticity threatens them.
They loved you with all your performance.
You were manipulatable!
A doormat.
You were a giver!
You were desperate!
You prioritized their needs over yours
And they loved it.
January 5, 2026 at 8:21 AM
Most people hate you when you start choosing yourself & prioritizing your needs.
Your authenticity threatens them.
They loved you with all your performance.
You were manipulatable!
A doormat.
You were a giver!
You were desperate!
You prioritized their needs over yours
And they loved it.
Your authenticity threatens them.
They loved you with all your performance.
You were manipulatable!
A doormat.
You were a giver!
You were desperate!
You prioritized their needs over yours
And they loved it.
Kill the inner servant and awaken the inner ruler.
The inner servant;
•Waits for permission
•People pleases
•Has no or weak' boundaries
•Has no self-respect
The inner servant;
•Waits for permission
•People pleases
•Has no or weak' boundaries
•Has no self-respect
January 4, 2026 at 5:48 PM
Kill the inner servant and awaken the inner ruler.
The inner servant;
•Waits for permission
•People pleases
•Has no or weak' boundaries
•Has no self-respect
The inner servant;
•Waits for permission
•People pleases
•Has no or weak' boundaries
•Has no self-respect
"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who couldn't here the music "
January 3, 2026 at 5:41 PM
"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who couldn't here the music "
The bad boy prrovides a chaotic environment that your nervous system is attracted to.
The good guy provides a peaceful environment that feels foreign.
Your nervous system is attracted to what is familiar even if unsafe.
The good guy provides a peaceful environment that feels foreign.
Your nervous system is attracted to what is familiar even if unsafe.
January 3, 2026 at 5:35 PM
The bad boy prrovides a chaotic environment that your nervous system is attracted to.
The good guy provides a peaceful environment that feels foreign.
Your nervous system is attracted to what is familiar even if unsafe.
The good guy provides a peaceful environment that feels foreign.
Your nervous system is attracted to what is familiar even if unsafe.
Setting boundaries isn't about being a bad person.
It's about protecting yourself from bad persons.
It's about protecting yourself from bad persons.
January 2, 2026 at 7:45 PM
Setting boundaries isn't about being a bad person.
It's about protecting yourself from bad persons.
It's about protecting yourself from bad persons.
You've been trying to much but there's still some darkness.
Lightly child lightly!
Lightly child lightly!
January 1, 2026 at 2:45 PM
You've been trying to much but there's still some darkness.
Lightly child lightly!
Lightly child lightly!
Now is the time to start treating yourself as someone you love.
January 1, 2026 at 2:08 AM
Now is the time to start treating yourself as someone you love.
Anna Freud, Sigmund Freud's daughter, once alleged that most victims sometimes start identifying themselves with their aggressors instead of hating them .
Sound ironic right?
Read it out
www.mentaltheme.com/...
Sound ironic right?
Read it out
www.mentaltheme.com/...
December 31, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Anna Freud, Sigmund Freud's daughter, once alleged that most victims sometimes start identifying themselves with their aggressors instead of hating them .
Sound ironic right?
Read it out
www.mentaltheme.com/...
Sound ironic right?
Read it out
www.mentaltheme.com/...
You don't have to follow them.
Their opinions
Their beliefs
Their dreams.
You don't have to follow them.
Their opinions
Their beliefs
Their dreams.
You don't have to follow them.
December 31, 2025 at 1:44 PM
You don't have to follow them.
Their opinions
Their beliefs
Their dreams.
You don't have to follow them.
Their opinions
Their beliefs
Their dreams.
You don't have to follow them.
"One day in retrospect, your worst years will strike you as the most amazing years"
~Sigmund Freud
~Sigmund Freud
December 31, 2025 at 4:29 AM
"One day in retrospect, your worst years will strike you as the most amazing years"
~Sigmund Freud
~Sigmund Freud
Reposted by Komrade Montell
Carl Jung had an interesting model about the structure of our mind.
Check it out.
www.mentaltheme.com/...
Check it out.
www.mentaltheme.com/...
December 30, 2025 at 7:24 AM
Carl Jung had an interesting model about the structure of our mind.
Check it out.
www.mentaltheme.com/...
Check it out.
www.mentaltheme.com/...