Adekola
@kola2.bsky.social
A lot of things broke my heart but fixed my vision.
That sidelines those who are femme, soft-spoken, or simply don’t fit the rigid mold.
Add in body shaming (too skinny, too fat, not “fit”), colorism, tribal/ethnic stereotypes, and even class signals like how you dress or speak.
Suddenly dating stops being about connection, and starts
Add in body shaming (too skinny, too fat, not “fit”), colorism, tribal/ethnic stereotypes, and even class signals like how you dress or speak.
Suddenly dating stops being about connection, and starts
August 22, 2025 at 3:54 PM
That sidelines those who are femme, soft-spoken, or simply don’t fit the rigid mold.
Add in body shaming (too skinny, too fat, not “fit”), colorism, tribal/ethnic stereotypes, and even class signals like how you dress or speak.
Suddenly dating stops being about connection, and starts
Add in body shaming (too skinny, too fat, not “fit”), colorism, tribal/ethnic stereotypes, and even class signals like how you dress or speak.
Suddenly dating stops being about connection, and starts