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2/2 or that the filthy English imposed this dreadful stuff on them. But of course, we don't have words for it - we just use what they have imposed. I'm not saying that this is logical, or what you have done, but it always has that ring to me. Even more so in very conservative cultures like Russian.
October 22, 2025 at 9:04 PM
2/2 or that the filthy English imposed this dreadful stuff on them. But of course, we don't have words for it - we just use what they have imposed. I'm not saying that this is logical, or what you have done, but it always has that ring to me. Even more so in very conservative cultures like Russian.
I'm a native English speaker, but read fairly fluently in French and German. There is a part of me that finds it really demeaning that no other languages ever seem to bother to develop a vocabulary for sex - especially kink. It always feels to me like they are trying to assert their purity 1/2
October 22, 2025 at 9:02 PM
I'm a native English speaker, but read fairly fluently in French and German. There is a part of me that finds it really demeaning that no other languages ever seem to bother to develop a vocabulary for sex - especially kink. It always feels to me like they are trying to assert their purity 1/2
There is that. Who knows what is happening under the cassock? Rubber would be a little warm, but not impossible now.....
September 28, 2025 at 4:14 PM
There is that. Who knows what is happening under the cassock? Rubber would be a little warm, but not impossible now.....
Do you go to church in that young man?????
September 28, 2025 at 3:29 PM
Do you go to church in that young man?????
Then I need your gear. Right now. Thank you in advance.
September 24, 2025 at 1:05 PM
Then I need your gear. Right now. Thank you in advance.
not just adolescents, and yes, mine is very uneven.
September 20, 2025 at 9:24 AM
not just adolescents, and yes, mine is very uneven.
They are different things, but the difference is not objective - it's down to how I feel about my alone-ness at the time. Being AuDHD that can change from moment to moment, in either direction.
August 31, 2025 at 8:49 PM
They are different things, but the difference is not objective - it's down to how I feel about my alone-ness at the time. Being AuDHD that can change from moment to moment, in either direction.
He was recently diagnosed as ADHD. I think us late-diagnosed ND types struggle with many things, including internalised ableism from the many years of total ironclad masking. That has effects which are well beyond the scope of a Skeet to explain.
August 28, 2025 at 9:08 AM
He was recently diagnosed as ADHD. I think us late-diagnosed ND types struggle with many things, including internalised ableism from the many years of total ironclad masking. That has effects which are well beyond the scope of a Skeet to explain.
The moon would be so overpopulated its orbit would change.
August 27, 2025 at 8:20 AM
The moon would be so overpopulated its orbit would change.
These days I'm more platinum (!) than anything else. Still trying to decide whether crushing mortal dread lessens. I think so - or at least it becomes a familiar presence.
August 24, 2025 at 11:47 AM
These days I'm more platinum (!) than anything else. Still trying to decide whether crushing mortal dread lessens. I think so - or at least it becomes a familiar presence.
It's the glare of the sun I can't cope with. A really good sun hat with a wide brim is excellent for this, heated cranium notwithstanding.
May 12, 2025 at 7:39 PM
It's the glare of the sun I can't cope with. A really good sun hat with a wide brim is excellent for this, heated cranium notwithstanding.
The Vatican closet contains many skeletons, including those of popes.
May 8, 2025 at 8:28 AM
The Vatican closet contains many skeletons, including those of popes.
Unfortunately, his failure to rein in the utter fascists in the US College of Bishops/Cardinals with the severity the task required is one of the main stains on his papacy. From that stems many of the other problems.
April 21, 2025 at 1:52 PM
Unfortunately, his failure to rein in the utter fascists in the US College of Bishops/Cardinals with the severity the task required is one of the main stains on his papacy. From that stems many of the other problems.
I can't describe this to the people around me, at least not in a version they will hear. They look at me like I have three heads. Surely doing it once was the charm? Er, no. Very much not.
April 19, 2025 at 11:41 AM
I can't describe this to the people around me, at least not in a version they will hear. They look at me like I have three heads. Surely doing it once was the charm? Er, no. Very much not.
Ignore me - I get it now.
April 16, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Ignore me - I get it now.
gatekeeping between which two things? I think this is me, and am sure of being "dysregulated AF"
April 16, 2025 at 5:34 PM
gatekeeping between which two things? I think this is me, and am sure of being "dysregulated AF"
either, cyclically, to infinity and beyond.
April 15, 2025 at 4:40 PM
either, cyclically, to infinity and beyond.
That's not the reality. It takes you from fawning to abusers to distancing yourself from them.
April 15, 2025 at 12:48 PM
That's not the reality. It takes you from fawning to abusers to distancing yourself from them.
I wouldn't have a clue where to start. In ADHD terms I can articulate my need for support with organisation and prioritisation, but in autism terms, I think I'm still at the stage of retreating into a dark cave if anyone so much as asks if I need anything. Help is dangerous, my brain says.
April 13, 2025 at 7:20 PM
I wouldn't have a clue where to start. In ADHD terms I can articulate my need for support with organisation and prioritisation, but in autism terms, I think I'm still at the stage of retreating into a dark cave if anyone so much as asks if I need anything. Help is dangerous, my brain says.
In which braindead world is that his fucking sister?
April 8, 2025 at 3:37 PM
In which braindead world is that his fucking sister?
I am currently sitting in what you might call a fallout storm from precisely this. Feeling the need for care, but not having time or resources to organise, accept or receive it, because there is so much to cope with coming.
April 7, 2025 at 9:59 AM
I am currently sitting in what you might call a fallout storm from precisely this. Feeling the need for care, but not having time or resources to organise, accept or receive it, because there is so much to cope with coming.
This raises what you might call the spectre of IBS. It's an elimination diagnosis, meaning that no pathological root is discovered. This really is one point where I feel that someone could have asked questions when I was diagnosed with IBS - 27 years ago.
April 7, 2025 at 9:00 AM
This raises what you might call the spectre of IBS. It's an elimination diagnosis, meaning that no pathological root is discovered. This really is one point where I feel that someone could have asked questions when I was diagnosed with IBS - 27 years ago.
And indeed capitalist family life, which is just as output-oriented as the world capitalist bullshit
March 30, 2025 at 7:42 PM
And indeed capitalist family life, which is just as output-oriented as the world capitalist bullshit
I'm still often shocked by the fact that I am getting angry, because it's something I always mask very deeply. If I catch myself allowing it to surface it freaks me out completely.
March 29, 2025 at 12:37 PM
I'm still often shocked by the fact that I am getting angry, because it's something I always mask very deeply. If I catch myself allowing it to surface it freaks me out completely.